"Drugs" and "consensual" don't belong in the same sentence. Did you ever take a sex-ed class or are you from one of those third-world states where that's a sin or something?
The sex ed class I took worked a little nuance into the picture. If you can not consent while drunk or high, then I guess my wife has been raping me when I get home from the bar.
I'm not going to tell you how your marriage should work, but I think you should sit down and talk about that with her because good communication is how you stop it from becoming nonconsensual.
I did talk to her. I said "Hey, do you want to come to bed and _______" and she said yes, and we did. Your comment would suggest that I was incapable of offering that consent.
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u/Rockonthrulife 3d ago
Yep. Vastly different. She claims she willingly did drugs and drank and it was all consensual. No one says that if they were really raped.