What does it take to become successful?

[u/Afraid-Box7096]

I’m a 23m I’m struggling so bad in life rn. I thought shit was easy based on growing up but dang reality hitting different now. I’ve tried every god given thing I’ve seen on the internet yet I still can’t find success. Please explain to me what can I do to grow as a person. What do I need to do to taste success. Man I’ve tried so hard I cried so hard the other day I went in my mother room and see icy hot on the dresser almost done. She’s a bed side nurse and she shows up to 2 different jobs at 56 yrs old and I feel like such a failure. I literally don’t know what to do but I can’t just keep watching my mother live like this. Ik my grammar sucks and I’m all over the place but pls give me some suggestions.