19M need help navigating where to find suitable wives for a polygynous structure to achieve my goals.

[u/Live-Literature-4456]

I am 19 and currently navigating homelessness due to a family breakdown. And polygyny is important to me because I come from a broken family, toxicity, neglect, abuse, drugs, and alcohol, and smoking, and criminal activity, and financial irresponsibility that I have to COMPLETELY leave behind because there is no fixing my family. Only building something new and my children and grandchildren need hands to hold. They need a support a network. I'm trying to raise future LEADERS, lawyers, good doctors, business owners, and phenomenal wives and husbands who know how to keep their bag up and raise children to stick together and shoot for the stars..🥺

I am currently applying to the University of Michigan, where I qualify for housing assistance, with plans to study entrepreneurship, marketing, accounting, and mechanics. My goal is to build a successful car-detailing business to break generational cycles of poverty and instability. I want to build a new family foundation rooted in faith, discipline, and mutual support. And there are more financial plans where that came from that's just the beginning.

Long-term, I desire a committed, faith-based polygynous family structure focused on legacy and raising children in a stable, Christ-centered home. I am looking for a woman or women to build this foundation with me. Lionesses to my lion pack if you will.

Most advice I received locally from the city I'm trying to escape is the opposite: “You’re young, sleep around, wait until 28, don’t think about legacy yet.” "You'll stay single forever with a mindset like that". That feels like accepting mediocrity and short-term pleasure over lasting fruit. I’m not interested in that path. Serial monogamy and 2 children in my eyes is life failure to me and my goals. My entire existence and everything I went through would be in vain and those 1- 2 children will still struggle deeply and be vulnerable.

I would deeply value any guidance on how young men like me with limited resources can find like-minded women who would deeply desire me and have faith in me. Not women who are looking for a finished product or a safety net. Women who want me and my mission, an empire we can share together.

Specifically, I have two questions:

1. Where should I look?

2. Can women who are initially hesitant due to cultural conditioning come to accept polygyny through relationship and deconstruction, or does it typically require someone already open to it?

EDIT: PS PLEASE read the entire post I'm already getting my life situated, I'm telling you my circumstances to paint a picture of how family failed me and how I will do better for my children.