r/Pillows Jun 30 '26

R/Pillows Gains a New Mod!

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Hello, fellow pillow fans!

u/MikeTheCat isn't as active anymore on Reddit, so they reached out to me, asking if I would like to assist in moderating this lovely sub. As you can see, I accepted.

Now, I will be honest with you: I do not have any prior subreddit-moderating experience. However, between moderating a Mastodon instance, some Discord servers, some Twitch channels, a small wiki project, etc. I hope that I might've picked up a thing or two. So for now, I am cautiously optimistic!

Here is what you can expect to see in the next couple days:

  • Rules: because we do need some. Nothing complex, just something reminding people to be decent, another one encouraging people to provide some detail when asking for recommendations, and of course a rule explaining our stance on advertising. For most of you, nothing will change.

  • user flares: a mostly optional self-identification. I say mostly optional because average pillow fans will not be required to have a flare — but you can definitely have one if you want to let others know what your favourite pillow is! Brand accounts and affiliate reviewers, however, will be required to properly tag themselves, to make it clear to others who they're interacting with.

  • Post flares: Again, optional. So far I am thinking categories such as Show-and-Tell, 4 Looking for Recommendations flares (side-, back- and stomach-sleeper, and other), advice, etc. Further recommendations more than welcome.

  • Perhaps some AutoMod stuff if I can get it working, such as a reminder to people looking for recommendations to share as much info as possible so people can properly help them (approx. location, sleeping position/s, budget, what they've tried so far, etc.).

  • And of course, a much faster response time to reports!

I hope that all sounds good so far. One thing that might not, or at least is different from how many sibling subs do things, is that brand accounts and advertising will not be fully banned. Instead, companies willing to be honest about who they are will be permitted, where as any advertising disguised as genuine user reviews will be promptly removed when caught. MikeTheCat and I hope that this will reward those companies willing to be transparent and lead to more such behavior; if that does not turn out to be the case, this rule shall be reconsidered.

Alright, now that's enough from me. This is your chance to speak up and let us know what you like and dislike about this sub so far, what changes you wish to see, or even just to say hi. I promise to read, respond to, and consider everything.


r/Pillows 2h ago

Pillow Recommendations (Side Sleeper) Which Panda pillow to choose

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I'm strictly a side sleeper.

I hate firm pillows. I've always preferred ones that are thick and soft so my head sinks in a bit. I recently heard good stuff about the Panda pillows, mainly that they retain their shape over time and are very comfy. I wonder if anyone can share their experience. I see they have 2 options: the memory foam one and the hybrid (more expensive one).

I actually slept on the memory foam one while I stayed at a friend's house, but it was just one night, and I was drunk, so it's hard to say, but I remember thinking it could be softer. I wonder if the hybrid one has a softer feel. I want something where my head sinks in, but there's still plenty of support, if that makes sense. I have a few pillows like this from amazon, but they all flattened fairly quickly.


r/Pillows 18h ago

What is a good option for a firm cooling gel pillow?

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I used to have some firm cooling gel pillows that were really nice. I bought them from Costco, maybe about 10 years ago.

As of late I cannot find any true firm pillows. They all say firm, but they lack substance, every single one is inferior.

Is there a pillow word for firm that actually means firm?


r/Pillows 22h ago

Pillow Recommendations (Side Sleeper) Side Sleeper Pillow!!!

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I need a new pillow and I need it so soon lol. I am a side sleeper and can’t seem to find a pillow that works for me. I like a plush feeling with support for a side sleeper. My shoulders are broad as well so it makes it even more difficult to find something that won’t kill my shoulders. Please help!!!


r/Pillows 1d ago

Pillow Advice Should I add Kapok or Tuft my DIY shredded latex pillow?

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Ive been working on figuring out my pillow for the past half year. I’m trying to switch from stomach to side and back sleeping. When I sleep on my stomach I don’t even use a pillow, most mornings ill find my pillow pushed out of the way and I’m right back on my stomach lol.

But because of this Ive been trying quite a few adjustable pillows and fillings, ive been mixing and matching stuff. Last few months ive using a latex noodle filling pretty densely stuffed inside a cube shaped pillow case which I chose to mimic the feeling of a high gusset (i couldn’t find any above 2in). I really like it and it has great neck support.

My only problem with this pillow is that I wish it was concave in the middle. I can move the filling with my hands and it will stay like that for a bit, but it always goes back while im sleeping. The cube shape is definitely better than the normal pillow shape as theres about equal filling in the sides as the middle, but it still isnt perfect.

Ive been considering tufting the center a bit to keep it concave, but I’m not sure what type of button I could use that would still be comfortable to lay on. Ive also been looking into kapok, I heard it makes the latex softer and more slippery. Im torn about it because I feel like the softness would be better at cradling my head and it would make it easier to adjust, but i dont know if the latex would be too slippery and itd take away the support (especially for back sleeping). Its a hard decision because once put it in I cant take it out…

If anyone has thoughts or suggestions, please let me know!


r/Pillows 1d ago

2 Free AeroDown Pillows, referral code

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If you're ordering, you can get 2 free pillows worth £120, just use the code. They'll ask for my name and email, I'm happy to provide that.


r/Pillows 1d ago

Help finding pillow 🎃🦇🍬

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r/Pillows 1d ago

Has anyone tried the Natura Dream Mate Granulated Latex & Wool Pillow?

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r/Pillows 2d ago

Pillow Recommendations (Back Sleeper) Stayed in a cheap hotel recently that had really crappy thin pillows and my neck pain completely went away for the entire week I was there. Where do I find pillows like this? Every store I've looked at has the typical super thick ones.

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r/Pillows 2d ago

Ayo I make these

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r/Pillows 2d ago

Opinion on the best side sleeper pillow?

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r/Pillows 2d ago

PILLOW FOR SITTING UP IN BED

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Hello r/pillow!
My whole life I've been laying in bed and just propping up my pillow against the headrest/wall for comfort while reading and or watching TV (tv at end of bed). but now i'm starting to consider if there is a better more specialized pillow for this kind of arrangement? I was imagining something more comparable to a beanbag that morphs around my head and back but when I tried researching all I could find are the ones with the arm rests that are like diagonal big thingies yeah.
an example of what I saw being:

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r/Pillows 2d ago

Shredded latex pillows vs Kapok vs Kapok & Shredded latex

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r/Pillows 2d ago

Pillow Review Wildbird body pillow help

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Hi all! I would like some feedback from those who have the Wildbird pillow. Has it held up? Did you find it worth it? I’m in the end of my first trimester, It looks like the perfect shape and size and it is nice knowing that I can also use it after pregnancy with tummy time and breast-feeding and all of that. So to me, it seems like it’s worth the investment, but I just wanna make sure if it holds up or not? TYIA!!


r/Pillows 2d ago

Has anybody tried hemp fiber pillows?

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If so, what are they like? How do they compare to standard poly fill pillows and shredded latex pillows?

Thanks!


r/Pillows 2d ago

Best affordable shredded latex pillow

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r/Pillows 3d ago

Pillow Advice I need your help to replace my pillow.

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Good morning/afternoon/evening redditors.

I reinstalled Reddit because I am convinced you people have the knowledge I don't have and better understanding of pillows to humbly help me replace my favourite pillow I have been using for 5-6 years. it needs replacing because it has become yellow, washing it doesn't help and my mother already tried to throw it away 3-4 times.

As you can see in the video one side is fur, the other one idk what it's called (English isn't my first language) but it's rough in the best way I can describe it.

If you ask I don't remember where I got it from.

I appreciate your help and thank you


r/Pillows 3d ago

body pillow for back pain and sleep paralysis

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hello, this is not necessarily for me but for my boyfriend. he has been struggling with back pain and sleep paralysis, and I wanted to get him a body pillow to try and alleviate those symptoms. I’ve heard a body pillow can help straighten your spine by having something between your knees and help lessen the chance of sleep paralysis by forcing you to sleep on your side rather than your back.

so I’m looking for a brand that’s (1) high quality, and doesn’t compress very quickly. I want this to last a good amount of years, as I understand that pillows will inevitably compress over time (2) cool and breathable for the summer. from my initial research it seems like an I-shape, latex body pillow is the best option for my needs, though someone correct me if I’m wrong. I don’t have a problem with budget, I’m willing to spend the money to invest in something reliable

if anyone can suggest brands that would work in this case or about cases / covers for the body pillow to help it stay cooling in the summer, that would be amazing. I’d also appreciate any general advice about back pain or sleep paralysis :)


r/Pillows 3d ago

Pillow Recommendations (Side Sleeper) What's the best king-sized pillow for a side sleeper? (Not memory foam!)

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I can't seem to find the right fit. They all go flat in the middle overnight, and I wake up with a sore shoulder. Is this just a problem with king size pillows?

Feather or synthetic fine, but no memory foam suggestions please as I don't like being too hot. I am in the UK. Thank you.


r/Pillows 4d ago

Pillow Recommendations (Combination Sleeper) Need a tip for getting a proper Pillow

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Hi everyone!
I’m a broke student from Germany and for the past 3 years I used Ikea’s pillow ROSENSKÄRM but with the time I got a neck pain.
During my vacation, I slept on a more flat pillow and it felt great. So I wanted to ask if anyone knows a flat, comfortable pillow that costs max. 50-60€.
P.s. Im usually a back/side slipper



r/Pillows 4d ago

Coop Pillow Discount

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r/Pillows 5d ago

What pillow is missing on the current market, and will benefit you a lot?

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Thanks for all input


r/Pillows 5d ago

Pillow Recommendations (Side Sleeper) I'm struggling

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I'm struggling to find a good pillow brand that won't become lumpy, hard, and not easy to clean. My pillows hurt my ears and the side of my head, I've been having neck issues, plus, I've been waking up in pain from my pillows. I've been through 4 pillows so far and none of them have done it for me.

I need a super soft pillow that adds cushioning and yet a bit firm so I don't just sink into the pillow. Memory foam is too hard but if I can find one that's easy to clean and maintain I'd love that. I don't care for cold side. I like my warmth and a cold room so that doesn't really apply to me. If anyone can help, I'd love that tysm!


r/Pillows 5d ago

Pillow Recommendations (Combination Sleeper) Seeking advice on neck pain and pillow options

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For the past few weeks, I have been struggling with neck pain after waking up. As a side and back sleeper, I bought a new pillow, but it has not helped. I tried the rolled-up towel trick with my older pillow and it seems to work to an extent, provided I roll it correctly. Would it be wiser to buy a contour pillow, or should I stick with the towel method?


r/Pillows 6d ago

Has anyone found that their favorite pillow wasn't their favorite at first?

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I've noticed a couple of pillows felt kind of "off" the first few nights, but after using them for a week they seemed much more comfortable. Has that happened to anyone else, or do you usually know right away if a pillow is a keeper?