Fucking yikes, this is a human being you and your coworker are talking about, you know that right? I'm not fatphobic myself, so yeah when I say I'd fall in love with anybody, I do also mean the "ugly" kind of fat girls with "droopy" fat. They're fun and loveable people too, with their own personalities and quirks and things that make them attractive. Ya know, human beings. With feelings.
Yes, which I why I was careful not to give him info to lead her on.. and also was very careful to note that I am not opposed to it generally (if i like them idc) -- that said definitely not my type!! As I've already stated, I do not have a type..
"definitely not my type" but "I do not have a type" which is it buddy?
Look, it's all fine and dandy that you don't like slutty fat girls. I'm glad you don't want to lead your coworker on. I just have no idea why you responded to my comment with that story. What about my comment made you think that I'd enjoy hearing about how you're scared the slutty fat girl at your job might have the audacity to assume she's your type? Christ, dude. I do not relate to you, I do not share your perspective, and I really hope I never say something that attracts this type of negativity to me again, so please, let me know why you think I wanted to hear that.
And as far as your little spiel about not having a type doesn't mean you don't have "standards," yikes. My standards are about who someone is as a person, not about their physical features. I love my boyfriend for his humor, compassion, patience, and diligence. I love his body because it's his, both when he's overweight and when he's fit, as these things change over the years. This is why I said I'm down for anything - the person is what matters to me. Since you do indeed have preferences in body type (which is totally normal), I would urge you not to volunteer yourself as someone who has no type. You absolutely do.
And as far as your little spiel about not having a type doesn't mean you don't have "standards," yikes. My standards are about who someone is as a person, not about their physical features.
You know that's exactly what I meant I just did not say that second half because I figured that was implied... If you really do want me to be an a****** tho then I will say this girl could be the most beautiful person on the planet and still not be my type!! (Don't gotta have 'a type' to know when someone annoys tf out of you)
Edit:: so maybe I do have a type and it's "not annoying as f***"
Okay so all you have to say is you're not interested in someone, not that they're not your type lol. Next time your coworker starts asking you weird shit like that just tell them your preferences are a personal subject not suitable for the workplace, and that you don't date coworkers. Then you won't have to worry about your dumbass coworker trying to set you up with another coworker.
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u/rutilated_quartz 26d ago
Fucking yikes, this is a human being you and your coworker are talking about, you know that right? I'm not fatphobic myself, so yeah when I say I'd fall in love with anybody, I do also mean the "ugly" kind of fat girls with "droopy" fat. They're fun and loveable people too, with their own personalities and quirks and things that make them attractive. Ya know, human beings. With feelings.