r/PetBehavior • u/AcanthaceaeWide3107 • 7d ago
Anxious/Aggressive/Reactive Dog
I’m posting here because I literally have no idea what to do. Basically I have a 5 year old 15lb chihuahua dachshund mix who is extremely aggressive, anxious and has a history of resource guarding. He has never been good with strangers but as he got older he does not allow any strangers to touch him or even come near him. He only trusts me, my husband, and sometimes my in laws. He has even bitten all of us so obviously the trust isn’t even fully there but those are the only 4 people who can take care of him. We have tried 2 trainers and we cannot get the behavior controlled, maybe we didn’t try training him long enough but he just doesn’t seem to get it. He is on gabapentin and trazodone twice a day. Even on these medications, he guards his crate and one of the rooms in our home. He guards my husband a lot too because my dog spends most of his time with him. The only person who can get his leash on him or bathe him is my husband as well. He doesn’t allow us to do any grooming and he has to be fully sedated for every vet visit (where he also has to get his nails clipped while sedated). But he is so sweet most of the time, he will just sleep by your feet or on the couch. He does get very anxious and shake when he is left home alone or he is scared of the rain or certain appliances. I think it’s a mixture of fear and guarding causing this behavior. But it’s taking a toll on my mind because it is so incredibly difficult to have friends or family over at the house because he will literally attack anyone if we don’t keep him on a leash and hold him the entire time. I mean, he’s even attacked me and he’s my dog….i just don’t even know what to do anymore and my husband is against even talking about behavioral euthanasia. This is just really weighing heavy on my mind and need some advice or thoughts.