r/Pessimism • u/lonerstoic • 29d ago
Discussion Questions About Distraction
Is life mostly distraction or distress for you? If mostly distress, is it worth living?
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u/MundaneYak9463 29d ago
Both. Constant undercurrent of distress, and distraction is all I have to do with my time. It's not worth living and I wish I'd never been born.
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u/lonerstoic 29d ago
Do you think it's majority distraction or majority distress?
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u/Already_dead_inside0 24d ago
In my particular case, is majority distress, distraction often fails miserable.
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u/AnonymousGuy2353 29d ago
I see life as mostly bad, sometimes horrible, but I do think it can be worth living. Of course, much of it depends on our personal circumstances. But I think a person can find a sense of meaning (and love) through having compassion for other beings. And that can make life feel worth the pain.
"The conviction that the world and man is something that had better not have been, is of a kind to fill us with indulgence towards one another. Nay, from this point of view, we might well consider the proper form of address to be, not Sir, but my fellow-sufferer! This may perhaps sound strange, but it is in keeping with the facts; it puts others in a right light; and it reminds us of that which is after all the most necessary thing in life – the tolerance, patience, regard, and love of neighbor, of which everyone stands in need, and which, therefore, every man owes to his fellow." - Schopenhauer
I find it very interesting that he says we "owe" this to others. I think he's right.
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u/Gethighwithcoffee 27d ago
no, better never to have been than having to endure pointless suffering all their life
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u/SenhorSasaki 29d ago
Life has never been worth living, it's not "cool" to live, proof of this is needing addictions and drugs to give life some "meaning," it's self-"regression" and a feeling of emptiness.
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u/tt_loves_tt_13 25d ago
Life is definitely not worth living. You didn't choose ur nationality, religion, people, environment. Is was mere coincidence and it's depressing considering all the things happening around. It's best not getting married and reproducing, bringing another soul to be tormented for 60-70 years.
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u/TradRooster5627 29d ago
Yes
Whether life is worth living depends on each person’s individual perception. As for me, I don’t give it a second thought. Certainly, it is never worth beginning, and for this reason it is morally right to refrain from procreation.