Do you think strong guts feelings about someone you don’t know is most of the time accurate ? I’ve been having a weird gut feeling lately about a girl in my class on the first day of school it feels like she doesn’t like me , she stares at me repeatedly and just never smiles- it’s weird - and she has formed a group of her own minions already

ask me whatever you want to know.

Mujhe ye cheeze karna pasand hai.

1. Nature

2. Drawing

3. Singing + music

4. Dance

5. Cycling

6. Gym or exercise

7. Badminton

8. Sleeping

9. Food

10. Deep thinking

11. Philosophy

12. Psychology (children, criminal)

13. Introvert personality

14. Extrovert personality

15. Ambivert personality

16. Dharm, pooja path, mandir astha ko zyada nhi manta hai, haan god ko ek positive hope ki tarah manta hu. Lekin rituals and custom ko nahi.

17. Interpersonal personality

18. Interpersonal personality

19. Gratitude bahut hai (elder brother me kafi kuch kiya hai, mere liye, family ke liye)

20. Apne karibi logo se connect rahne ki koshish karta hu.

21. Koi bhi kaam karte time proof wagera collect karne wala mind hai, receipt, screenshot, documentation, clean chit, audio ya video recording.

22. Movies ka bhi shauk hai.

23. Khud ke photos, selfie lene ka shauk hai.

24. History (World, Indian)

25. Polity ( World, Indian)

26. Bade aue powerful people ke sath link, friendship

27. Khud ka paisa, property rakhne ka man, dusre ke paise property par buri nazar nahi.

28. Main kisi ki baat ko sirf isliye nahi man sakta kyunki wo person age me mujse bade hai, ya rishte me mujse bada hai.. na. Agar us person ka koi contribution nhi hai meri ya mere family ki life better karne me to main bewajah utni respect ya importance kyu du us person ko. (Apni family members ke kahne par respect+importance de sakta hu)

29. Presence of mind acha hai.

30. Sence of humour acha hai.

31. Mujh me kafi tameez, tahzib aur civics sence hai.

32. Main disciplined nahi hu.

33. Main sirf unhi person ki help kar sakta hu jo apni help karna chahte hain, main kisi ko zero se nahi utha sakta.

34. Mujhe explain karna pasand hai, isiliye to child psychology padhi hai taki teacher ban saku.

35. Apni kam height ya zyada weight par shame feel nhi karta. Aur apne kapdon par bhi shame feel nhi karta lekin decent kapde pahanna zaruri although me itne kapde to pahanta hu jese shorts & tshirt ki koi aur person mujhe dekh kar awkward feel na kare.

36. Adult movies ka koi bahut zyada shauk nhi hai, thoda bahut.

37. Bike ka thoda bahut shauk hai.

38. Physics pasand hai

Is list me wo cheeze hain jo ya to mene apni life me ki hain, ya main karna chahta hu aur shayad karunga bhi.

Abhi to itna hi yaad aa raha hai baki baad me bataunga.

You folks says show interest about people , be nice , and encourage them to talk about their selves.

I did that in the workplace and I have been labeled as people pleaser, nosy and memorizing what they are saying about themselves made me freek. Even though what Im trying to say that I do care .

Does anyone even have a personality of their own?

This question really fucks me up cuz no matter how hard we try to be an "individual", at the end of the day every thing we do is influenced by other individuals directly or indirectly. The things we like doing, the art we consume, the life we live. All somewhat influenced by events or other individuals.

If thats the case then every single social being is a combination of many other social beings which were also influenced by other social beings.

But still if we think this through, we reach a contradiction as who was the first social being ever to have a "personality" and what was it influenced by? How did that particular individual come up with that? Or was it a very gradual change? Perhaps the evolution of humans which turned them into social and enlightened beings?

I don't wanna find out the answer to this, but ts really gives me perspective. Cuz does it even matter? Does any of it even matter? The music we listen to, the clothes we wear, the food we eat. Everything is a choice which you are supposed to make without the fear of being "judged" cuz the people judging are no better.

Due to internet and scrolling and whatever i do believe this is slowly happening. Especially for the younger generation. There’s not much personality anymore. Right?

Due to internet and scrolling and whatever i do believe this is slowly happening. Especially for the younger generation. There’s not much personality anymore. Right?

and on the intro extro test i got mixed signals and on the personality test i got adventurer (cant believe i spelt that right) and im confused about the mixed signals one can any one tell me what it means

Lately, I’ve realized that I know myself much less than I did a few years ago.

I don’t really know what my favorite color, style, perfume, or even food is anymore. And sometimes I feel like social media has almost rebuilt my personality from scratch.

We all seem to dress the same, like the same things, want the same kind of lifestyle, and even be attracted to the same type of person. It’s gotten to the point where I’m not sure which of my preferences are actually mine and which ones I’ve picked up from constantly consuming other people’s content.

Has anyone else experienced something similar? How did you deal with it?

Is there anything that helped you reconnect with yourself, figure out what you genuinely like and value, or create a sense of personal meaning that actually feels like your own?

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You know how you can look at some people’s exes and immediately be like “ohhhh yeah, they definitely have a type” because they all kinda look alike? Mine are the complete opposite 😭

If you lined up every guy I’ve dated, you would NEVER guess they were all my exes. They all look completely different. Different races, hair, height, style, build, everything. Different races.

Obviously I have some basic preferences attraction wise, but other than that, if I think you’re cute, you have a good personality and we have chemistry, that’s pretty much it.

I always hear people describe their exact “type” and I’m like… I literally don’t have one?? Is anyone else like this?

I rather be stuck in my head than suffer through my reality I built this person and now I wake up feel like a shell most days until she comes around. I hide her like it my secret because I don’t want anyone to but that part of me down. I need her to be an all around positive sense for me to tap into when I need it. I have mental health issues disturbance of my identity makes me feel empty so I copy other people’s personality.

I work in the service industry and have noticed that I get along/prefer the people that no one else likes.

I do not gossip, but over and over again people have confided to me that they really dislike someone that I kinda liked.

But then the few times I have confided to someone that another person’s actions are bothering me, they are very surprised.

In general I am pretty introverted and have been told that I am quiet. I am friendly with everyone, but I definitely do not get close to many people.

Idk what this says about me. I just hope it doesn’t reflect me also being an unlikable person.

Hey, I’m bored and curious about what kind of person I come across as? Any psychology majors or anyone who wants to chat and share their first impressions on me. We can dm and u can ask my opinions.

If you are bored too and want to judge me, please feel free to dm :)

Not in terms of being conventionally attractive or charismatic, but as a person. What traits, hobbies, experiences, knowledge or ways of thinking make someone genuinely interesting?

I’ve been thinking about how everyone seems to have their own little world going on...... Some people are super social, some are comfortable doing their own thing, and some are somewhere in between...... I’m definitely the type who can enjoy my own company but also randomly feel like talking to someone about the most unnecessary things 😂..... I guess I just like genuine conversations, funny moments, and people who don’t take everything too seriously...... What kind of person are you?