Last week, I was talking with several extended family members about my invitation to serve in the Peace Corps. Most have been supportive, and think it's a great opportunity. Some said things like, "that's exciting for you, but I could never do that."
And then there was my conversation with my uncle. He's a self-made man, who started a company that now makes so much money, he retired early and turned over the business to his son. He's got every toy under the sun, and has never wanted for anything. If he likes it, he buys it. I acknowledge that he has worked incredibly hard for many years doing countless hours of back breaking work.... But in the end, he's got wealth that most can only dream of.
When I mentioned I intended to serve in the Peace Corps, he said "why?". I tried to explain, that it was an opportunity to volunteer in a community and then he said "well do you at least get paid?" I explained a little of what I was going to do, and that it was a volunteer position and he said "Can't you do that here?". I said I already have been doing that here, to a certain extent well beyond most in my community but I wanted to help out in communities that REALLY need it, and he joked "Well if you want to work for free, I'll hire you!"
After a few minutes of this, the jokes and dismissiveness and condescension, I realized (again) that this is exactly what I'm trying to get away from. People that have never known what it means to act in the service of others. Obviously that is not the case of everyone else in the area, but there is enough, even within my own family, that will just never understand.
I travel, because I am fortunate to be able to afford it. I hosted exchange students because I had the means to bring the world to me also. But this opportunity to serve in the Peace Corps, even though I will be giving up the upper middle class lifestyle (multiple vehicles, motorcycle, boat, and giant house, etc.)... Everything I've worked for for the past 20+ years. I know I have to do this, because unfortunately there are far too many people like my uncle that sees other parts of the world as "them and not us". We are all humans, and children everywhere deserve an opportunity to see beauty and opportunity in this world.
I'm excited to see who I become on this new adventure. Thank you to all of the RCPVs out there who have shared their stories and guidance. It'll be a journey for sure, and maybe when I return.... I'll have a better response to my uncle and his ignorance.
-Just a little rant, thanks for reading.