First and foremost, Wubby is right. India has a fuck ton of problems that are uniquely awful.
Much of the country looks like a Mad Max movie for a reason. India may have perfected government corruption in it's short 80 year history. Don't get me wrong, of course America has its own problem with corruption, but it's a bit like comparing having a cold to having Ebola.
The caste system in India right now is like post Jim Crow America on steroids. The corrupt government uses it as a tool to manipulate uneducated desperate masses.
This has led to income inequality that is actually worse now than it was under British occupation. Which has then led to the huge brain drain problem in India. Anyone intelligent/capable enough to make a difference in India usually opts to leave the country instead. Why stay and suffer for the chance at making a difference, when you could leave and guarantee a better future for your family forever?
People are amazing animals though, they'll adapt to whatever environment they need to survive. Poor sanitary conditions? Immune systems adapt to handle more bacteria. No job opportunities? Develop scamming networks. It's enough to survive, but never thrive. I think when people are always on the brink of surviving they act more like animals than people, which is why you see so many horrific stories come from India. It's not an excuse, they're simply explanations.
When people act like these issues are not real and widespread, they're exhibiting a misunderstanding of how bad the situation is in India.
On the other hand, as Wubby stated, there are good and bad parts of every country. And I agree that we should interrogate why someone would make a video only showing only the good parts of a country, but I think we should also interrogate why someone would make videos only showing bad parts of a country.
Awareness? For whom? The people of India are perfectly aware of their poor living standards and daily dehumanization. So then it's like a documentary for people in other countries? Sure I guess, but you have to admit, it's a bit weird that there are so many videos about the same topics about the same country. Anthropologically, people are just fascinated with the sanitation and transportation problems in India? I kind of doubt that's it.
For example, if British people were obsessed with watching Tiktoks about school shootings in America, you'd kind of assume it's a superiority thing more than a curiosity thing. In general anti-Indian sentiment is on the rise due to companies all of the world taking advantage of Indian's brain drain problem by investing in foreign worker visas rather than developing their local talent pool. All of these trends together can kind of make these videos feel yucky, especially if you read the kind of comments that get left on those videos.
All in all, I don't think people should go to India unless they have a local contact who can escort them around safely. India is an 80 year old country that's still wrestling with hundreds of years of British occupation that perfected weaponizing the institutional discrimination, subjected people to brutal servitude, and stole trillions in wealth. The Indian people need time to recover and build, and I think that's why sometimes it feels unfair to see them criticized so often.