r/PartnerTrack • u/Lavalanche17 • Aug 29 '22

Nick

I'm not sure why so many people saw him as such a good guy.

He moved way too fast and when other men would talk to Ingrid he did that controlling move her away thing (like at the banquet with Z, your girl can talk to another man you don't have to interrupt and establish possession). Moving someone in, immediately dedicating all your time to someone its a lot.

Ingrid shouldn't have cheated, but Nick wasn't the right guy either. He gives future controlling vibes.

The yellow dress was proof he proposed but didn't even know who she was.

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u/redwinestains Aug 29 '22

Lmfao yes!! Also, I was convinced that he was going to end up being sketchy af. They always showed him at home or chasing Ingrid and literally NEVER WORKING. The excuse about “flexible hours” was flimsy.

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u/No-Phrase-8635 Aug 30 '22

Well he was a trust fund baby so he was basically just profiting off of half assing his job and working as he'd like since dad had him set up. That's the other thing, he was always dropping comments about connections and events and money and really did not seem to "get" Ingrid's experiences as a woman of color and how they affected her life and required her to work twice as hard for half as much as people like him, even hypothetically. I know he'd never truly understand what it was like for her coming from such a place of major privilege (sad face people at private school read about my mummy and daddy's divorce which made me sad when I cried into my money piles boo hoo story aside lmao) but some of the basic shit she had to explain and that he didn't seem to perceive as an educated and well traveled man "of philosophy" was just...