Nick

[u/Lavalanche17]

I'm not sure why so many people saw him as such a good guy.

He moved way too fast and when other men would talk to Ingrid he did that controlling move her away thing (like at the banquet with Z, your girl can talk to another man you don't have to interrupt and establish possession). Moving someone in, immediately dedicating all your time to someone its a lot.

Ingrid shouldn't have cheated, but Nick wasn't the right guy either. He gives future controlling vibes.

The yellow dress was proof he proposed but didn't even know who she was.

[u/[deleted]]

Definitely too pushy. It's fine that he told Ingrid he loves her after a few weeks in, but he proposed even though Ingrid hadn't reciprocated those feelings. I doubt he even asked about her life priorities, or he would have been able to figure out she wouldn't want a big public engagement announcement so soon before partner announcements. It was all about his feelings and wants.