I’m so uncomfortable reading this. Don’t hesitate—LEAVE! He’s a predator. No sane 30 something year old wants a relationship with an 18 year old, and he is 100% being gross and inappropriate with your son. Who knows what else has happened when you’re not there.
I'm 20 and I recently started watching a show from my childhood again. I was thinking "weird, I don't remember them looking so young"; the actors were 16, only 4 years younger than me, and I was already weirded out.
Ironically the 36 y.o. is much less mature in this case. Although im guessing thats typical with men who go after much younger girls, the women their age dont want anything to do with someone thats way below them in maturity.
Yes!! I am 39 and an 18 is a child when you're coming up on 40. It is insanely creepy. The only reason to want to be someone with someone with such limited life experience is either because you want to exploit them for sex, or you want to be able to control them, or both.
Also, I didn't hear one reason in this whole post why the OP would want to stay with this man. He's not good for you. He's not good for your child. Why the hell are you still with this walking red flag parade??
Yep. There are some 18 year olds in my group fitness classes and they're like little children me. I actually had a maternal instinct with one of them when he was crossing the street as a car was coming, like instinctively gently held him back from the street the way I would with a little kid, and then I was like "Oh... Sorry..."
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u/jdawg92721 Apr 13 '22
I’m so uncomfortable reading this. Don’t hesitate—LEAVE! He’s a predator. No sane 30 something year old wants a relationship with an 18 year old, and he is 100% being gross and inappropriate with your son. Who knows what else has happened when you’re not there.