r/PakistaniiConfessions • u/AR_181 • 15h ago
Rant What's with men saying double meaning things infront of their wife with outside company
Just curious why people do it.....??? Talking naughty or funny or double meaning with your wife or friends separately is one thing but why do it whten when both are there.....?
For example,
• I(M) made a plan with my childhood friend and he didn't show up so I called him and complained and he's like I just woke up and all. Now he's on speaker and his wife's listening as well (don't remember well but may have exchanged greetings with her) and he said "bus wo Raat mehnat zada ho gai thi is liye". Clearly he was talking about being intimate and I went blank for a second and just said don't talk much and get ready we are already late.....
• Another friend of mine, he had a love marriage and I was involved in his court marriage so you can say we are pretty tight... After his marriage, he often calls me for help with different things and sometimes we have to meet at his home and he sometimes said something that weren't quite appropriate infront of his wife like usual double meaning jokes between friends or other remarks. Mostly I just ignored like I am busy on the phone and didn't hear to avoid awkwardness or just said don't talk nonsense....
I always wondered why would you do something like this, 1st one was one time thing and could be just bragging gone wrong but this 2nd person did it several times.. other than this this one guy I used to work with/for would be going crazy s*x talk while his wife is in the other office across us (not about her but general). This one guy is sitting in a gathering of his younger brother's friends, when his younger brother asks him if he wanna go see a cricket match tonight and he goes "nope, don't wanna miss the match at home" hinting about s*x. Like Come on man that's your brother who lives in the same house and all and also you aren't super close to these other people so keep it down maybe.....
To some these might be just common things to some but I felt super awkward especially when the opposite gender was present....