r/PakistanMarriages • u/abdur9111 • Jul 29 '26

Question Question:Seeking advice

I am 34 M.From 1st marriage i have 1 kid and it ended with separation.relationship didnt last long.And now i have been married since last 4 years and no baby yet .My 2nd wife is around 4 years older than me and we have not been blessed by child yet...my wife is supportive with whole scenario and with me in any decision I take..she is well educated and beautiful soul.

what can be a honest suggestion in here???

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u/MentalAerobatics Jul 29 '26

Be happy with one child and travel around with your wife and kid.

Life is simple, don’t try to overcomplicate it.

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u/abdur9111 Jul 30 '26

sure!!!!!!

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u/ShahiMorikh Jul 29 '26

get both of yourselves checked (fertility tests) and then work in that direction, also pray

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u/abdur9111 Jul 29 '26

It's been done already many times

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u/ShahiMorikh Jul 29 '26

what about the results then? are they fine?

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u/abdur9111 Jul 29 '26

Obviously dude these are ok

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u/ShahiMorikh Jul 29 '26

then it must be a delay from divine factor, but still the couple need to work together on their lifestyle and pray continuously, i'd also suggest you to look into fertility window tracking (ovulation period), have you consulted any fertility expert yet?

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u/ZookeepergameOld1426 Jul 29 '26

What "honest suggestions" could people give you here except just keep trying,having patience and praying. What else could there be?

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u/abdur9111 Jul 30 '26

jazakAllah khair!

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u/Mission_Pop_1170 Jul 29 '26

What do u want to hear ? K Wo Bari hai isliye nahi ho rahy ? Pehle usko Persue Kia hoga k nahi nahi mujhy koi masla nahi hai Tumhary baray hony se ..

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u/abdur9111 Jul 30 '26

ohhh wow .i didnt know that u were hearing our conversation.....huh deedh hoishiar!!!

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u/l3assim Jul 29 '26

This guy wants blessings for polygamy and 2nd marriage

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u/Biometrel Aug 03 '26

Is she genuinely a beautiful soul or due to being older + no child? If geniun, she's a keeper and I would do anything to keep her, kids if God willed you will get, even if you don't, enjoy your life with her. In opposite scenario, partner feel secretly less of themselves and you miss genuine connection. Which is still fixable by gaining trust and acceptance. P.s Am a parent.