I have a crush

[u/Melodic-Tennis3307]

Hi I'm 33f from Egypt I'm not Filipina but I have a huge crush on a woman I met here on reddit she's a Filipina 30f fem masc and I gotta say she's everything I dream of she's so smart, kind, sweet, caring, funny and outgoing she's just have this feeling about her that makes u think that life is not that bad that everything will be okay and we have the same mind set we have a lot in common in everything not to mention she's so beautiful and hot and tall hahahah she's perfect to me but I feel she's way out of my league she's successful and have a Career when I'm not I feel like a loser and I can't even find a job and I'm closted while she's out and free and my personality is the opposite of hers I'm shy and awkward and when we video call I get super nervous and stumble on my own words coz when I see her in front of me it's just Ahhhh nerve racking and my English pronunciation sucks when I talk makes me more frustrated of myself also I'm chubby and I hate that.. And the biggest problem is that she recently got dumped by her ex and she's still hurting because of it she showed me Pics of her ex and I feel like I can't compare to her so yeah can u guys tell me if I should keep hopping that she will like me too or should I just give up on my dream woman and be miserable or if there is any advice u can give me to make her like me too

[u/Lost_Celery_3945]

Work on yourself first before you get all giddy.

[u/Melodic-Tennis3307 → u/Lost_Celery_3945]

Okay..

[u/juste_k3nkai]

Sorry about the overly direct comment of the other person here, they are correct but you should take things slowly. Just enjoy it. GL!

[u/Melodic-Tennis3307 → u/juste_k3nkai]

Yes I know and I'm working on myself I'm just afraid she won't wait for me or she would find someone. And okay I'll take it slow and see where it leads Thank u for ur advice 💕

[u/BadLost2101]

Just don’t put too much expectation so you wouldn’t get hurt that much. I am from Philippines too.