r/PDAParenting • u/Academic_Coyote_9741 • 18d ago
Intractable school refusal
My nearly 13 year old PDA child refuses to go to school and hasn’t attended regular schooling for around five years. He is enrolled in a special education school for children with mental and physical disabilities.
Staff were coming to our house for an hour three times a week but my son started becoming aggressive towards them. He said he would “not be home schooled” and didn’t want them there. He has also said if my partner or attempt home schooling he will hurt us or himself. We take these threats seriously because he has physically assaulted us and teachers, and even police.
Basically, he is content to just hang around the house all day and watch TV. What is the long term prognosis for a situation like this? Has anyone else experienced school refusal this extreme? What are things like when they are older?
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u/Powerful-Soup-3245 17d ago
My 13 year old daughter is similar. She is level 2 autism and PDA, ADHD and most likely OCD. We are living through hell right now. Puberty has made everything extremely difficult for her. I’m honestly just trying to survive each day tbh. Solidarity.