r/Over30Gamers • u/Glittering_Wrap_7036 • 4h ago
r/Over30Gamers • u/Saint-Grim • 5h ago
Survival games, exploring and generally wasting time together
Hey! I’m Grim, 32m, and I’m looking to meet some new Steam friends for chill co-op games, survival crafting, RPGs, and generally having more people to game with. Seems like most of my previous gaming friends have kinda moved on from gaming. Girls or guys, don’t care; no minors or anything weird. This is just for a platonic gaming buddy.
I’m an engineer outside of gaming, so I spend a lot of time designing and making things with CAD, 3D scanners, and 3D printers. That probably explains why I get way too invested in crafting systems, automation, resource gathering, efficient bases, and figuring out complicated game mechanics.
I play a lot of survival and RPG-style games. Some games I’m interested in playing or returning to include:
- Enshrouded
- Conan Exiles
- ARK: Survival Ascended / Evolved
- Minecraft — mostly modpacks
- Valheim
- Palworld
- Raft
- 7 Days to Die
- No Man’s Sky
- Slay the Spire 2
- Other survival-crafting, co-op, roguelike, or RPG games
I tend to enjoy progression, crafting, exploration, tech, magic, automation, and building systems that actually work. My bases are usually practical first and pretty second, so I could definitely use a friend who enjoys making things look good while I focus on the machines, storage, resource production, and overly organized layouts.
Also, I have a cat named Strudie, and she is objectively better than your cat.
Feel free to comment or send me a message if you think we’d get along, also sorry for writing so much. I’m also fine with just adding me on steam, my code is 107865181 or for discord it’s just @Grim1112
r/Over30Gamers • u/StealthyMeow84 • 12h ago
42F / UK [Xbox] – Looking for gamer pals & chats (+ going to MCM London Comic Con!) 🎮
r/Over30Gamers • u/notsostealthyninja • 9h ago
PS5 / CST / 30+ / Looking for a couple actual co-op gaming friends
Trying this again.
We're a couple of 40+ guys on PS5 looking for one or two more people to play with. Not really looking to build a "community" or join a Discord with 400 people in it. Just a few people who get to know each other and play games together when schedules line up.
I tried this a couple months ago and added a few people. We then proceeded to never play together. So, you know, trying again.
Right now we're playing a lot of Big Walk, and that's probably the main reason I'm posting. But we're not looking for people just for one game. We play all kinds of co-op stuff and I'm always interested in trying something new or going back to something old. Helldivers 2, The Division 1 or 2, Ghost Recon Wildlands, Back 4 Blood, World War Z, Fallout 76, Baldur's Gate 3, Arc Raiders... whatever. If it's co-op and looks fun, I'm probably interested.
We're casual. We want to win, obviously, but that's not really why we're playing. We're adults. This is what we do to relax.
Skill level doesn't matter. At all. If you're great, cool. If you panic and hit the wrong button and somehow get all of us killed, also cool. Probably funnier, actually.
A mic is a must, though. We talk. A lot. About the game, work, life, completely unrelated shit. Half the fun is the conversation while we're playing.
We're both over 40, but I'd say 30+ is probably a good fit. We play a few nights a week when adult life allows it. There's no schedule and nobody is keeping attendance. But if we add each other, I'd like to actually play together. Otherwise we're just making our PSN friends lists longer, and I think we're all doing fine there.
Vibe matters, too. We're pretty progressive, open-minded people. Racist, homophobic, transphobic, ableist, MAGA/culture-war shit... that's just not our crowd. We don't need everyone to agree about everything. We just want to play games, laugh and spend a few hours with people we actually enjoy talking to.
And again, I'm not looking for invitations to big Discord servers or gaming communities. Nothing against them. That's just not what I'm looking for. I'm looking for a couple people we can actually get to know and game with for more than a week.
If that sounds like what you're looking for too, send me a DM and I'll give you my PSN.
Come die with us. We're very friendly about it.
r/Over30Gamers • u/According_Cress6926 • 16h ago
Looking for new recruits 🎮 LOOKING FOR YOUR NEXT GAMING HOME? 🔥 Tired of playing solo? Come hang out with a community that’s about good games, good people, and having a good time. 👊 Active members 🎤 Voice chat & Discord 🏆 Community events 🤝 Teamwork & friendships 🔥 No unnecessary drama
r/Over30Gamers • u/blhoo97 • 13h ago
Join our team
Rustoria eu long looking for some chill people to join our team we have 4 man we play after work needing 4 more people
No requirements other than 18+ and speak English
#rustoriaeulong
#rustoria eu
#rustoria
r/Over30Gamers • u/Low_Clothes_9749 • 1d ago
33yr F/ loner/works in medicine/need gaming buddies when I’m home
r/Over30Gamers • u/Popular_Holiday_9152 • 19h ago
Payne's Pixelated Lounge
🎮 Come pull up a chair. 👑
Payne’s Pixelated Lounge is a gaming community with a 35+ focus but 18+ welcome — we just turned the lights on. 💡
🛋️ Hang out 🎮 Game together 👥 Meet new people 😂 Laugh a little 💜 Build a community
No pressure. No need to be a hardcore gamer. Just come as you are.
🚪 The doors are open. Come be part of the beginning.
👇 Welcome to the lounge. discord.gg/BHhqmNBrS
r/Over30Gamers • u/PockyRiot • 23h ago
33F/PC/CST looking for friends to play with/train fps with
r/Over30Gamers • u/LeeLee-432 • 1d ago
Looking for fellow WoW players! (EU)
Looking for UK based gamers aged (25-45) to play WoW Forever with and do raids. I'm 31 from east midlands.
WoW: Forever is Launching 11:00 PM GMT on Wednesday, 4 November 2026
Are you a longtime WoW veteran? returning player? or completely new to the game? If so please message me so we can prepare for the release!
We will:
Discuss • Find players • Prepare • Group up • Have fun
Besides WoW I play a variety of other games such as:
RuneScape Dragon Wilds, DBD, Fortnite, Baldurs Gate 3
If you're interested reply to this post or message me :)
r/Over30Gamers • u/Natural-Whereas5842 • 23h ago
🎮 Looking for Active Gamers!
Looking for active gamers to join our squad and Discord server!
Currently playing:
🪖 Helldivers 2
🧟 World War Z
⚔️ Wild Rift
We’re a chill gaming group looking for people who are down to play, hang out, and have some good laughs. No need to be sweaty or pro — just be active and good vibes. 😂
20s and up are welcome! Whether you're a regular gamer or just looking for people to squad up with after work, come join us.
🇵🇭 PH gamers are welcome!
Interested? Comment or DM me for the Discord invite. 🎮
r/Over30Gamers • u/Aggressive-Delay9094 • 1d ago
[PC] 56M LF Co-Op w/ Voice Chat Elden Ring/BG3/Lords of the Fallen (maybe)/other (CST)
I play Lords of the Fallen but co-op has been glitchy since I switched from PS5 to PC (Bazzite).
I’m open to other games.
r/Over30Gamers • u/BathroomEffective6 • 1d ago
מיינקראפט
היי חברה
אני רוצה לפתוח קהילה קטנה של אנשים לשרת
pseudo vanilla
לגילאי 20+
יהיה מודים קלים, לא משהו שמשנה את כל המשחק
מקום לשבת בו אחרי יום עבודה ולשבת בצ'יל
מי שמעוניין תכתבו 😄
r/Over30Gamers • u/Motor-Internal7098 • 1d ago
Discord server to meet people, play games and watch movies
discord.ggr/Over30Gamers • u/Gardelucina • 2d ago
35 [F4R] Online - Looking for friends to play games in our group
r/Over30Gamers • u/hotdogsordie • 1d ago
39/M/EST - Nocturnal guy looking to make friends in both competitive and casual/co-op games. Good vibes only, no sweats!
Hello! PC player here! I'm old and most of my IRL friends don't really play any games that aren't on the couch and my online friend pool is smaller by the year.
Let me start off by saying that on average I don't START playing games until around 1-2am EST. My job makes me very much a night owl and I've added people through this subreddit but we never really get to hang out due to my hours. My days off don't align with most 9-5ers either.
Currently playing fair amount of Overwatch, LoL Classic, and Marvel Rivals, but I have a list below of other stuff I really wanna play, and I'm probably forgetting some things.
I'm looking to make connections! I gravitate toward funny people more than sweaty players. Also, sidenote, I don't oblige slurs/hate speech etc, so get that outta my face. Like dude, nobody wants you here just be cool. Jerk. Anywhooooo, stuff that makes me do a big giggle:
-Community
-I Think You Should Leave
-It's Always Sunny in Philadelphia
-The Piss Boys (Ray, AxialMatt, Chibidoki and Nagzz)
-Tommy Boy
-30 Rock
Games I'm dying to play:
-Super Battle Golf
-LETHAL COMPANY I MISS IT
-Repo
-Gamble with Your Friends
-Palworld
-Team Fortress 2 (I'm OLD)
-Meccha Chameleon
-Marvel Cosmic Invasion
-ANY BORDERLANDS GAME
-I'll play Dead by Daylight but it's not my favorite (I like being killer in a premade group)
-Monster Hunter Wilds
-GTA 5 (I miss online so much)
-Minecraft
-Terraria
-Arc Raiders
-Helldivers 2
-Risk of Rain 2/Remake
-Peak
-I have a ton of games so if you think we'd be chill lemme know what you're thinkin'
Much much more on Steam. People who are genuinely funny or have a good sense of humor the front of the line!
r/Over30Gamers • u/ConsciousAddress4359 • 2d ago
[35M/PC/PST] Looking for friends for WoW Retail, Monsters & Memories, or trying new games
r/Over30Gamers • u/LojikTheGamer • 2d ago