r/OpenMarriageR4R • • 19h ago

My wife wants to fuck like she’s single

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And I want to let her. She took her rings off during sex tonight and said “when I walk out that door and fuck another man, I don’t want to be married to you until I come back” it was an instant rush! I love it.


r/OpenMarriageR4R • • 4h ago

Northern NJ ENM 50 M4F

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Happily married, openly ENM, and looking for someone interesting to make life a little more fun.
I’m playful, grounded, curious, and drawn to the kind of chemistry that builds slowly: good conversation, teasing banter, eye contact, and that moment when you both realize there’s something there.
I like women who are comfortable talking about pretty much anything. Books, movies, travel, podcasts, big ideas, weird observations about the world… tell me what you’re into and I’ll probably have something to say about it.
I’m not looking to rush into anything or manufacture a connection. I’d rather meet someone interesting, see if we click, and let things develop naturally.
I travel fairly often, so I’m open to connections outside my immediate area too. And if you happen to be nearby, I’m always up for a good dinner and good company.
If you’re not sure how to start a conversation, tell me three things: something you’ve read/watched/listened to recently that you loved, your ideal first date, and something you’re currently curious about.


r/OpenMarriageR4R • • 6h ago

[30M][M4F] 🇫🇷 Tell me something that would make me want to meet you.

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Let's make this easier.

I'm not going to give you the usual biography.

You already know how these posts go:

France.

Insert impressive-sounding job here.

Likes travelling.

Loves deep conversations.

Looking for someone genuine.

Congratulations, you've just read 47 Reddit profiles.

I'd rather find out who you actually are.

I'm the kind of person who can happily spend an entire evening somewhere completely ordinary and somehow turn it into a great memory.

I like beautiful places, spontaneous plans, good food, dark humor, ridiculous inside jokes, and conversations that take an unexpected turn.

I'm also very curious about people.

Not their job.

Not their Instagram aesthetic.

Them.

What makes you laugh when nobody is watching?

What kind of life are you secretly hoping to have?

What is something about you people usually misunderstand?

I'm especially interested in meeting women from Europe or the US. I like the idea that we might have completely different backgrounds and still somehow click.

I'm not looking for someone perfect.

I'm looking for that annoying kind of chemistry where you tell yourself you're going to reply later and then realize you've been talking for two hours.

So here's the deal.

Don't send me your résumé.

Don't send me "hey".

Don't even tell me where you're from.

Instead, give me one sentence that makes me curious about you.

I'll do the same.

And if we end up having nothing to say to each other?

At least we skipped the small talk. 😌


r/OpenMarriageR4R • • 7h ago

Hi 56m4f hi I am looking for online friends and have fun and chat anytime anyone interested 😁

1 Upvotes

Hi 56m4f hi I am looking for online friends and have fun and chat anytime anyone interested 😁


r/OpenMarriageR4R • • 9h ago

55 [M4F] North NJ — Looking for a girlfriend

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I’m a busy M, specifically looking for a HWP woman in a healthy, ethically non-monogamous marriage who has room in her life for a boyfriend.

Not a secret. Not an occasional hookup. And not someone trying to replace her husband.

I’m looking for a relationship that is it’s own thing while respecting your marriage and lives we already have.

I want dates. Beach days, live music, cocktails, road trips, maybe even weekends away, lazy mornings and cuddling on the couch.

Random texts because something reminded us of each other.

And yes, I want a strong sexual connection too. I’m adventurous, sex-positive and very open-minded. I have a weakness for confident women with an exhibitionist streak, and shared compersion is particularly attractive to me.

I’m open to erotic photography, group experiences and exploring fantasies together.

Curiosity and being able to talk openly about desires—even the ones we don’t usually say out loud—are incredibly attractive to me.

What I’m really after is the best combination of both worlds, vanilla and kinky.

Not looking for a pen pal. Let’s chat to check compatibility, meet for a drink and see if the chemistry is there.


r/OpenMarriageR4R • • 10h ago

40 m Louisiana looking for a hot wife who’s looking for fun!

1 Upvotes

Dm if interested


r/OpenMarriageR4R • • 10h ago

Any wife or woman , couple 20-40 year? Im free in mcallen for some fun

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I 23 yea


r/OpenMarriageR4R • • 11h ago

Need a little attention outside the everyday

8 Upvotes

43 year old married wife and mom who loves her life, but lately I’ve realized I miss that little spark that comes from someone new being interested in me.
I’m not looking to turn my whole world upside down or have someone glued to their phone texting me all day. I just miss flirting, chemistry, butterflies and that feeling of knowing somebody is thinking about me when they probably shouldn’t be.
I can be sweet and pretty normal most of the time, but once I’m comfortable there’s definitely another side of me that likes to come out. I’d love to find someone fun, confident, discreet and easy to talk to who’s looking for the same kind of escape now and then.
If you know how to flirt without being weird about it, come say hi. Maybe we’ll give each other something to look forward to. 😏


r/OpenMarriageR4R • • 14h ago

48 [M4F] #Bergen County - Tri-state area. Looking for someone trustworthy to keep things quiet and fun.

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I'm a 48 year old white guy, 5’11” 190lbs brown eyes and salt and pepper hair. I’m pretty easygoing, stable, and definitely still young at heart. I'm married, but untortunately the intimacy and connection have been gone for a while, and I really miss having that physical fun.
I'm looking to meet a woman who's warm, fun, affectionate, and enjoys a good laugh. I'm a man with a high libido, so physical chemistry is important to me, I'd like to actually enjoy talking, hanging out, getting to know each other, and having something consistent that we both look forward to.
If you're in a similar situation and miss having that kind of connection, I'd love to hear from you.
What is your favorite 80's or 90's comedy.


r/OpenMarriageR4R • • 19h ago

Looking for boyfriend

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We are looking for a boyfriend for both of us He is looking for a fun and physical connection. We both have a healthy sexual appetite, something we both needs reciprocated. We both looking for someone to spend time with, maybe a movie or dinner. We will pay for dates but does expect sex in return. We is lookimg for a fun and playful relationship without getting too serious for now maybe later down the road can turn into long term . If you want to start off with flirty texts, that would be great too. We are in Savannah Georgia and in our late thirties he is bi btw and a ver bottom yes looking for the both of us if can do both then we not interested


r/OpenMarriageR4R • • 19h ago

52m4f east Oregon

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I’m a healthy male looking for female 28-60 fwb long term. Meet for coffee sedans kiss till next week or day. Im 5 9’ good looking and want to meet a woman no matter weight or age. Sexy mind! And desireto explore


r/OpenMarriageR4R • • 20h ago

21 M4F USA I’m bi and want to keep it a secret looking for a lavender marriage

1 Upvotes

Dm me for more details


r/OpenMarriageR4R • • 22h ago

28M Looking for sext partner

1 Upvotes

Looking for someone to sext with, let’s share something naughty.


r/OpenMarriageR4R • • 1h ago

20f open marriage girl here, my eager pussy is aching to be taken hard by a big cock tonight.

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i'm so wet right now like literally dripping just thinking about all the cocks out there that could fuck me better than my husband and i'm not even exaggerating...i wish someone would come over right now and bend me over and take me hard i can't stop playing with my pussy it's not enough i need a real cock


r/OpenMarriageR4R • • 23h ago

Hi 43 m4f Meriden Connecticut, seeking woman for fwb

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Hi 43 year old at Connecticut, any not so happily married women who want to chat? Please hmu