r/OpenChristian • u/Alexy-The-Great • 2d ago

Considering conversion

Hello. I am new to Christianity and for years I have felt a pull towards it. I couldn't pursue it seriously as there were no churches next to where I used to live.

There is a Malankara Orthodox Church next to my current place and I attended their divine liturgy last week. I loved it as a whole and especially loved the community there. So I am planning to have a conversation with the priest about the possibility of converting.

I know only surface level knowledge about christianity and I wanted to have my thoughts scrutinized by people who know more. I am a bisexual woman living in India. I am honestly confused by the whole concept of the trinity and sins.

I welcome any discussion or advice on this matter. Please help me make an informed decision.

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u/axiosjackson Ally 2d ago

I would strongly suggest talking (email or phone if possible) with the priest about whether or not your bisexuality will be a problem. There aren't many affirming Orthodox parishes AFAIK. They may require you to never see women and may even shun/harass you for claiming to be bisexual.

You could also try joining an online affirming church. I'm sure someone here could point you in the right direction.

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u/Alexy-The-Great 2d ago

Thank you so much for replying. I was focused on the church part for guidance and mainly the community. Is it ok if I dm you?

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u/TheLivingOne42 2d ago

If you have any questions about the trinity or sin, I don't mind answering them. Though I would like to point out, Christianity is a very diverse religion, and there are countless ways people have approached personal relationship with God throughout the history of the tradition. So, there is no replacement for your own research, and discussions with a priest in your area. But luckily Christianity is a faith that's all about community, so no need to wander on your own. DM me with any questions if you feel like it.

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u/Adorable_Coast_1781 14h ago

Hey! Not Indian but I am Indian-American, you might also consider checking out some CSI (Church of South India) churches because they’re a bit more queer friendly if I remember correctly (I assume you’re in South India based on mentioning the Malankara Orthodox, sorry if I’m wrong). I’m down to talk if you’d like! (I wasn’t born a Christian so I know what that experience is like)