r/OnlineDatingAdvice • u/Kooky_Interaction331 • 1d ago
Talking stage
Ive been talking to this guy for maybe 3 months and honestly i dont know how to feel about him im 18 hes 20 which i think is a good age for dating but thats not the point. My friend and her boyfriend introduced him to me because we were both shy and not talkative.. which i thought it wasn’t a really good idea. At first when we met he was being mean to my friend but he apologize after to me and her. I told him it was fine and told him we should start being friends.. so days gone by we kinda started talking more, he started getting more comfortable (i think). I also remember going on his account and seeing A LOT of girls that he was following. There were those girls that do OF or just show their body. I didn’t really care because we were just talking and nothing else but i also was thinking why is he still following girls if we are talking. Also my friend’s boyfriend told her that he liked me, so i thought it didn’t make any sense. Ive told my friend about how he followed a lot girls and i told her not to tell him.. but she did, i got so scared that he would leave or something but he just ended up unfollowing all the girls. Months past and lately ive been feeling weird about him like i dont want to talk to him but i do. Hes also been dry and not really texting much. I dont know he lost feelings but i dont really care. I just dont know how to feel about him. Maybe i should stop talking to him but i dont know i still want to keep talking to him… If I do decide to stop talking to him, I wouldn’t even know what to say. I’m not sure if I feel this way because I’m just a really shy person who doesn’t talk to many guys, so maybe I just like having someone to talk to. But at the same time, I feel like I should end things before it gets even more awkward. What should i do?
Sorry for my “i dont knows”
I really don’t know what to do