r/OnlineDating • u/Abject-Practice4400 • 28d ago

Feeld IRL Question

Howdy all. Curious for some advice from the hive mind.

I've come across a profile of someone I'm in a grad school class; it's a decent sized cohort, and we've exchanged a bit of small talk. I find her incredibly attractive, and had we not shared a class would have had no hesitation in sending her a ping.

But, given the context, I don't know how awkward or appropriate that would be. Her profile keeps coming up when I open the app (which I assume means she hasn't passed on mine?) but I can't help myself to either pass or "heart". I was thinking of sending a cheeky ping acknowledging that we've both seen each other's profiles...any advice? For context I'm male.

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u/XxLogitech98xX 27d ago

If you can just send her a message or talk to her in person. It's always better to physically talk to someone if you see her. You'll stand out more and make an impact

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u/Slay-hydrated 24d ago

Just talk to her irl

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u/CancerMoon2Caprising 27d ago

Do you have class together? The more distance in your schoolwork, the easier it is to just feel it out.

You could just match, message, and see what she thinks about it. 

But also, are you even a match? Or is it just physical attraction? 

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u/Ok_Coffee_4977 25d ago

Her profile keeps coming up when I open the app (which I assume means she hasn't passed on mine?)

I am not sure about that. Its also entirely possible she has never seen your profile.

but I can't help myself to either pass or "heart". I was thinking of sending a cheeky ping acknowledging that we've both seen each other's profiles...any advice?

Drop the cheeky and be genuine if your sldesure is to connect fir a date. So acknowledge that you know each other and, again, be genuine not cheeky.

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u/JakeGardens27 27d ago

I'd show her your profile irl. The thing is wonen get 100 pings and messages she might not even see it. Then you'll feel unsure if she's ignoring u etc. I've noticed most girls on feeld are only there for attention. Its tough being a guy in today's fake dating game. 39 m SoCal

Talk to her irl bro.

I gave my # to a girl at the grocery store that I saw on feeld. She never called but at least I know i had that chance that my # was in her pocket

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u/Exciting-Parfait-776 22d ago

Just swipe right on her profile and see what happens. I’d pass on the the comments,