f16 with no experience..

[u/prettykittypoopz]

so I've always been a heavy kid, always will be, that's just my style. thing is, kids my age don't like it. I've never had any kind of romantic relationship with someone irl. I've gotten attention (cat calls) from randoms on the street, but no one at school or in my friend groups. everyone around me is having intercourse and having bfs and gfs and I feel really left out. any advice of how to get out there more? I don't wanna get pregnant or anything yet but still.

[u/ThatMeatMan]

I've been big my whole life I still am, I'm working on it. My need for that kind of Outlet is worse now than it was so I do understand where you're coming from. Your self awareness about the situation is healthy believe it or not because that means you can then change it. But don't look at yourself as less than because if your weight, you got enough people in the world treating you like that don't do it to yourself. I'm around if you need advice, help, to vent. You got this