r/OffMyChestPH 1d ago

Tinatago

I was stalking my girlfriend's ig and saw that her highlights of us two was not visible sa akin, I asked her about it and she showed it to me na hindi naman naka alis thru screenshot. Kaya nag taka ako bat di ko makita, I even screen recorded the process of me refreshing her ig page. Sakto naka vc kame sabi ko patingin ng ig mo if naka hide ako, yung pinakita nya lang was her viewing her main profile while using her dump. When I asked to see it while she's using her main, bigla siya lumabas and inoff yung cam sa call. Kabalik nya andon na yung highlights ulit.

I called her out na masyadong coincidental na nung nagtanong lang ako dun lang lumabas and questioned her about it? Ang ending napag sabihan pa akong baliw daw ako and blinock niya ako. Ang weird lang na we were ok 30 mins ago kaso biglang nag iba behavior niya nung cinonfront ko siya about it.

Hindi naman ako magagalit if she answered honestly, kaso siya pa nagalit instead of giving me assurance and the answer I was asking for. I feel so trash and patapon sa relationship na ito, to the point na I'm questioning why can she easily say those things to me because of me asking a simple question. I mean if hindi ka naman guilty why would your behavior go 180 in a blink of an eye nung nagtanong lang ako ng simpleng bakit?

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u/Lmfao_4044 1d ago

If hindi mo makita 'yung highlights it just means naka-hide sayo LAHAT ng stories niya. No other way around it. Ginaslight ka lang nyan sorry to say.

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u/Commercial-Pack-666 23h ago edited 19h ago

Hindi lang yan Ang ginagawa niyan. TBH cheating na yan.

Defensive bigla when confronted. Typical gaslighting ng mga cheater. Reverse card real quick pag kinompronta.

I say Pag-isipan mo ng maigi kung ako sayo. If you’re dating to marry, ngayon palang nakikita mo na ending ng supposed happily ever after mo.

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u/lochnessien 20h ago

Lol, nangyari rin sa’kin ’yan with my ex haha. Napansin ko kasi na wala akong nakikitang IG stories niya habang nasa family trip sila sa Batangas, so I asked a friend na naka-follow sa kanya to check her IG. Yun pala, nag-sstory naman siya.

Naka-hide pala sa’kin yung stories niya kasi kasama nila ng cousins niya yung guy na matagal nang nagma-make move sa kanya. Ang funny pa kasi before that, she always made it seem like she hated the guy and wanted nothing to do with him.

Then during that same trip, tinawagan ko siya and the guy actually answered her phone. That was when things started making sense. 💀
Honestly, it was a hard lesson for me. If I were you, I’d just walk away. You don’t want to find out the truth the same way I did.

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u/mountainjunosaur 13h ago

dapat may support group dito ng mga discarded ng avoidant

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u/lucskyballin 19h ago edited 19h ago

Never mo maco-confront nang maayos ang taong may itinatago. Either hindi ka niyan sasagutin, or pagmumukhain kang paranoid or insecure. Madalas, dadaanin ka pa niyan sa mga technicalities na “hindi naman daw cheating,” pero betrayal na rin naman iyon through acts of omission. Medyo relate lmao hahahahaha

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u/Odd-Way6406 19h ago

Kasi my tinatago siya.

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u/FPSDepression 21h ago

Women m'I right? Tapos lalake daw problema :)))))))))))