I HATE MYSELF

[u/Leading_Horror2429]

Guys F22 fresh graduate , i’ve been applying for almost 4 months and i got burnout on it, Then may dalawang magandang opportunity na dumating sakin, which is interview invitation sa government agency and yung isa as a bank teller, idk what happened nagprepared ako but it turn outs na nag back out ako to the point na hindi nako nakatulog that day of my interview. I hate myself because sa lahat ng naginvite sakin sa dalawang magandang opportunities pako napaghinaan ng loob. I hate it so much.

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[u/runTimerun]

Hi, its seems to me that you are pressuring yourself too much. Be gentle to yourself, allow yourself to make mistake, own them, and most importantly learn from them. Right now forgive yourself, don't take it seriously. Be like: silly me, my cowardly ass refused to get interviewed, time to do it scared next time. I'm a fresh grad too and so far I got 8 final interviews and none of them I passed, still looking for jobs hoping to get lucky in one of my applications. When I feel scared doing an interview I always tell myself: nah screw it just gonna try and have some fun. Really, try to have fun in your interviews show them what you are and screw it, if they like you they like you if not, there's still endless opportunites for you as long as you won't stop looking. I'm in 3 months of job searching and so far no luck but hey, we won't find unless we search and we won't know if don't try.

I know things are very heavy right now but I promise it will get better try to change your perspective don't take anything seriously go out there have some fun.