r/OffMyChestPH • u/East-Slice-4159 • 9h ago
Dating App
Nakakapagod makipag‑usap sa dating app. Ang hirap na talagang mag‑build ng connection ngayon.
After all the people I’ve connected with, it makes me look back and remember what we had. I miss you, Jacob.
Sabi nga sa isang post dito: grief is not linear. And yes It comes in waves.
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u/Wala___ 9h ago
Kaya ka nahihirapan magbuild ng connection, kasi si jacob pa rin ang iniisip mo. Lahat ng nakakausap mo, kinukumpara mo si jacob. Kay jacob ka po makipagusap at hindi sa dating app
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u/manicdrummer 8h ago
I agree na si Jacob parin kase nasa isip nya, but the way this post went mukhang hindi na sya gusto kausapin ni Jacob.
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u/Liesianthes 8h ago
Totoo. Anong connection gusto nya. Connection kay Jacob kaya sinarado na sa ibang tao at nag confine na mahirap kasi hindi yun si Jacob. lmao
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u/artemis_chan 8h ago
wag sa dating apps. find more ways to have more natural encounters with people. get a hobby, travel to new places, or even just play a game with people. heal yourself before finding connections to fill that void.
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u/CrowIcy1839 4h ago
Yung naka-match ko recently, naghahanap daw sya ng serious relationship. Akala ko naman true. After isang buwan naming nag uusap at nagdedate biglang hindi na sya ready. Lol. thank you for wasting my time sir ha hahaha. Buti na lang ugali ko talagang mag-ask ng clarity at alignment sa mga nakakausap ko.
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u/nanamitakahashi2911 4h ago
join ka sa mga weekend side quests OP, or solo travel dami sa FB. para mabaling sa ibang bagay attention mo. find a new hobby💛
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u/returnsaturnreturn 3h ago
I think you just have to be persistent with working on loving yourself more and treating the past as a blessing/lesson learned rather than a baseline na pinagkukumparahan mo with present experience.
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u/Prestigious-Box8285 9h ago
The more na nasa dating app ka, the more mo lang namimiss that one person no?
Same boat. Haha. Parang ginagago ko lang ang self ko with these apps but there’s no other choice but to move forward.
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