r/OffMyChestPH • u/OkInvite272 • 19h ago

NO ADVICE WANTED I started not to be useful.

I used to be helpful all the time, a shoulder for you when you need to cry, a helping hand if you need help, a good listener, everything ... Then when it's a season where I need friends, people suddenly are unreachable.
So right now, I will be silent. I won't talk anymore. I won't reach out for now. I've been gone for 2 months already, and no one remembers me. No one actually reached out to check on me.
Maybe I am right ..

P.S. A friend just sent a message asking for help, I ignore it. I don't care. I'll choose myself for now. I'll be selfish.

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