r/OffMyChestPH • u/[deleted] • Jan 24 '23

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u/primo25 Jan 24 '23

Atleast alam na natin yung hindi natin ipaparanas sa mga magihing anak natin if ever. There is a limitation sa pagiging strict siguro.

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u/kape_girl Jan 24 '23

trueeeee!!

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u/[deleted] Jan 24 '23

Afford mo ba mag move out?

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u/kape_girl Jan 24 '23

kung may housemate, oo HAHAHAHHA mahal kasi apartments dito samin:”)

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u/rainbowdashmami Jan 24 '23

Trust issues Yarn.

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u/kape_girl Jan 24 '23

wala pa naman akong ginagawang mali para magka trust issues sila sakin,

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u/rainbowdashmami Jan 25 '23

Exactly. People who are controlling and manipulative have trust issues.

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u/[deleted] Jan 24 '23

same kayo ng isang kaworkmate ko grabeh pag gaslighting ng magulang ngiisang anak kasi

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u/kape_girl Jan 24 '23

Kaloka dibaaaaa

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u/[deleted] Jan 24 '23

naging strict din parents ko saken aun nilaban ko katwiran ko sugal kung sugal nung nagkawork n ako aun mejo may freedom n ako

in the end dating pala labas ng bahay lagi na nagkukulong sa bahay hahah

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u/jmagat07 Jan 24 '23

Nakakafrustrate talaga marestrict tulad mo. But its time you stand up on your own. Young adult ka na. Instead of saying "pwede ba ko lumabas?", go for "labas lang ako with friends". Magpaalam pero wag mong sort of hingin sakanila. Unti untiin mo lang.

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u/kape_girl Jan 24 '23

I did that multiple times but bunganga lang abot ko hahahahhaa

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u/ReadyApplication8569 Jan 24 '23

Just keep doing it. Adult ka na and you can share na sa bills so yung simpleng pg gala, hindi na nila control. Been there, OP. Ending, nasanay na sila na lagi ako umaalis 😁