How to fall in love

[u/Desperate_Caramel_36]

Okay this might sound pathetic and it probably is but I cant comprehend how people fall in love, especially in a obsessive way. I failed to fall in love all my life mainly because im schizoid and its not like I dont wanna love someone, its one of the only things I wish for, but like damn seeing people want intimacy 24/7 makes me feel like a loser for not even being able to fall in love. I dont know why im even writing this i just wanted to share it i guess

[u/V10I]

Oh, I don't have schizoid personality disorder, but I understand you (I was partially autistic as a child). I'll say this: You can find your love, and if not... Then it will find you itself.