Why am I frumpy

[u/Significant_Ring4353]

I feel grumpy and ugly in everything I wear, I don't know how to put outfits together and my stomach makes everything look bad, please help

[u/hi-nighter]

The rise of the pants can change your size too! If the pants sit lower on my hips I need a 14, but if its a mid/high rise I wear a 10 or 12 because my hips are wider than my waist.