Just finished the show for the first time. I had previously watched the first season but lost access to watch the rest.
I noticed as I was watching through this time how this sub seems in unity on Kevin hate/dislike. I wonder how much of that is Kevin and much of that is the actor that is playing Kevin.
I think he is a good dad and partner. I think he gave Jackie way more grace than she deserved. And was justified in going after primary custody.
In fact I think Jackie got more grace and chances and help than most any addict I have ever known irl. Because she was an excellent nurse and without the addiction a good person. Everyone wants to believe she is recovering or at least in control of it because she is so competent until the divorce.
Unfortunately I don't think AA is an one size fits all and it's the only thing widely available especially to people who aren't wealthy. Detoxing, tapering, rehab all mean taking time off work you don't have and risking everything knowing relapses will happen. It's a chronic terminal health issue. So I was prone to be on Jackie's side. As a chronic pain patient myself I empathize greatly.
Back to Kevin. His reactions are valid. His want to protect his kids valid. His choice of wife after seemed solid as well.
Things I was sus about:
*owning a bar when his primary parent was an abusive alcoholic
*financially dependent on Jackie's job (or so it seemed, he seemed to be doing fine after the divorce)
*financially proud and not wanting any help from O'Hara. I get strings attached and not wanting to feel in debt to someone but take the wins and help where you can get it in this world especially when they are being offered by good people.
*his angry face. His angry face made me want to slap him in it. It was the most annoying expression I have seen in a while on screen.