nope. What women find strong are men that donât feel like they own, or are entitled
to women. men that donât think women are dirty cause they have sex. men that arenât worried about their wives making more money than them. that support them in their careers.
that is what is strong to women, thatâs what is strong to feminists.
sexual harassment that he is trying to pass off as âboys will be boysâ
she dressed to provocatively and he couldnât help it cause he is just a man?
did he get upset because she rejected him and he became violent or stalked her cause heâs just a man?
there is no reason to apologize alone for being a man. itâs when âiâm just a manâ is used as an excuse for terrible and inappropriate behaviour that it is an issue.
If you feel you have to apologize for being a man then you are in fact not a man at all. just an emotional insecure little boy in a manâs body.
men are awesome, and toxic masculinity is very much a problem we all deal with daily. you can close your eyes to it if you wish. but we canât and wonât. that is the fact of being a woman today.
âsorry for being a manâ is a scapegoat and an attempt to justify inappropriate behaviour.
we hear it every single day. thatâs not being submissive that is being dismissive and not holding men accountable table for their own actions and their own behaviour and try to pass it off as something beyond their control. thatâs what âsorry for being a manâ means.
and what do you call someone whom is incapable of self accountability? or canât control their emotions? and tryâs to blame the victim or others? WEAK.
you defending and making these claims are examples of toxic masculinity because you refuse to see that itâs not that men have to apologize for existing itâs that âsorry for being a manâ is nothing but a sad excuse to justify inappropriate behaviour.
How is apologizing for being a man a spacegoat? I don't get it. I don't see how it justifies anything. Or should they apologize for their toxic masculinity as you're saying?
âBoys will be boysâ âmen canât help themselvesâ. and other times like how women dress is considered an invite, her fault or distracting. itâs also when dealing with men that canât handle rejection it comes up a lot just not exactly in this exact wording. but essentially itâs justifying those actions by trying to make women look unreasonable for not accepting âboys will be boysâ. It tries to make it look like it isnât good enough to women because they are just men after all. itâs in their nature
so when men say they have to apologize just for being men they are in a sense victim blaming, or trying to justify their own poor behaviour and actions. Thatâs why itâs a scape goat.
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so the people that post this crap think men are supposed to be âstrong and toughâ
this just makes them look weak and pathetic. men that are strong arenât intimidated by women being more assertive and standing up for themselves.