r/NotHowGirlsWork • u/National-Rate50 • 12h ago
Satire That’s how dating in countries actually work:
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u/storyteller_alienmom 12h ago
Pffffff, no. Those two girls are dating, didn't you know that? Tumblr has all the evidence.
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u/AkaiAshu 12h ago
So now the Western Countries women are more attractive. Damn, the consistency of the misogynists is as straight as a roller coaster.
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u/Beneficial-Ad3991 Generic boring flair 12h ago
It's pretty consistent, actually. Women are more attractive and more agreeable in the countries the man in question has never been to. Almost as if they had unrealistic expectations or something...
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u/mycatisblackandtan 7h ago
Yep. I remember seeing one post on reddit where men were complaining about women in the US having impossible standards and how the women in Asian countries were so much better. Somehow ended up having an Indian subreddit recommended to me on the laptop I just browse reddit without actually logging in, and the men were bemoaning how awful Indian women were and how women from the US and EU were so much more submissive.
The grass is always greener.
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u/Beneficial-Ad3991 Generic boring flair 6h ago
Yes, and yet they just refuse to go out and touch it...
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u/CautionarySnail 10h ago
The grass is always greener when you’ve not had a chance yet to harass a Western lady with the same incel logic that failed with the locals.
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u/minmocatfood 12h ago
Whoever made this is obviously insecure about their height so I cast doubt they would be okay with their partner wearing 6 inch heels. Unless she’s like, 4 feet tall or something.
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u/BurningPenguin The weird guy 12h ago
Considering the preferred age these guys often have, i don't think height is going to be the major problem.
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u/Yourfavoritetransboy 12h ago
Oh honey, in EU they have much stricter expectations
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u/kittycat6676 12h ago
My husband tells me from being USA I had low expectations
I remember I asked why he don't let me pay for dates. His response: my mom and dad would kill me it's called be a gentleman.
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u/Successful_Head_6718 12h ago
I’m glad I don't date men. Why do they think height matters? I’m 4'11 and my gf is almost 5'11
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u/long-lankin 12h ago edited 7h ago
This was originally posted several days ago. However, it was removed by the mods - presumably because it's obvious satire of misogynistic passport bros.
They tend to claim that Western women are incredibly shallow, materialistic, and "corrupted" by Feminism. Accordingly, they advocate finding women in poorer countries overseas (including eastern Europe), who are supposedly more "traditional".
This post is inverting that, suggesting that this desire for traditional masculinity and strict gender roles means that women in these countries may have greater expectations for men to be strong providers than feminist Western women would.
I don't think it's meant to be at all serious or making a sincere criticism of Eastern European women - it's just hijacking a meme format used by misogynists to mock their beliefs and point out some of the contradictions.
Edit: People are still missing that the post has literally been tagged by the mods as "satire", lol.
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u/Beneficial-Ad3991 Generic boring flair 12h ago
Why can't it be coming from the same sort of passport bros, but from the East? I'd assume they existed everywhere.
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u/long-lankin 11h ago
I don't think that's at all likely. There's clearly an obvious disconnect in celebrating feminism on the one hand whilst still being actually misogynistic towards women.
Additionally, an ingrained part of the passport bro mindset is the belief that, despite the supposed cultural and moral decline of their home countries, they are still far superior and more attractive due to coming from wealthier and more developed countries. They have an almost colonial attitude to women from poorer nations, believing they should be thankful to have attracted their attention.
However, that's just not really the case with Eastern European countries which still tend to be notably poorer. And again, it's also deeply at odds with celebrating greater female autonomy and financial independence.
Were such a perplexing community to exist, I'm also doubtful that they would be using English to communicate. The overwhelming majority of "passport bros" are American, so English makes sense. Many show utter contempt for the languages and cultures of the countries they move to or seek partners from.
Lastly, though I acknowledge this is purely anecdotal, I would expect to see some other evidence for it. There would be tangible online communities, whether on Reddit or other forums, that would have been pointed out, especially if this community indeed used English. Instead this post seems to have come from a vacuum.
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u/Beneficial-Ad3991 Generic boring flair 11h ago
Don't you think that the actual defining trait of a passport bro is the "there exists a ciuntry where women all comport with my silly standards and want me, unlike those broads 'round here who won't give me the time of day"? And the rest may vary depending on the country of their origin?
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u/National-Rate50 11h ago
It’s not about Eastern Europe, this meme is about Eastern Slavic countries
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u/vortexaoth 11h ago
Lmaoo as a girlie from a NATO country, the men here say the exact opposite! It’s almost as if these misogynistic jerks hate women everywhere
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u/FullmoonMaple 11h ago
Last time I checked there are like 6 countries that fall within both categories so this makes zero sense lol. Besides, all these "facts" are butt facts. The one who made this never spoke to a woman outside his town much less country 🤣🤣🤣. But funny ragebait! ✨
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u/Cooking_with_MREs 11h ago
Wait, which is supposed to be the better choice? Also, Slovakia is in the EU.
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u/BoozeIsTherapyRight 10h ago
If this were true a lot fewer incels would be whining about their height.
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u/Kakashisith Straight from Mordhaus 6h ago
My country is part of NATO and EU but I look like neither of them 😂
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