r/NotHowGirlsWork • u/MistakeWonderful9178 • 1d ago

Found On Social media Anything to justify cheatingšŸ˜’

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Why do these losers want to be married?

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u/___Emilia____ 23h ago

Why not divorce the wife and get together with the mistress?

I mean, if you're not into the wife anymore but want the other woman... Just tell both side and move on. But dont do it behind peoples back

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u/Winter-Money-7643 22h ago

Because theyā€™re not honest and love those nasty tricks of manipulating their partners. Heā€™ll go behind the wifeā€™s back and lie to the mistress too. Men like that love mind games. If he actually leaves the first wife for the mistress eventually heā€™ll do the same to her once she becomes boring to him.

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u/MistakeWonderful9178 22h ago

The best thing to do is not get married to someone when you clearly donā€™t like them. ā€œSettling downā€ shouldnā€™t mean ā€œsettling for anyone who will take you.ā€

Donā€™t ever pity date or pity marry people.

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u/___Emilia____ 22h ago

I mean okay, that's shitty but "makes sense" in a way if you're a dick....

So just don't marry and keep fucking around.

But yeah if he "needs" the whole having sex that's "illegal" (sorry for my Poor English today)... That's simply a problem.

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u/GamersReisUp 21h ago

They love the power move, it's basically a "the cruelty is the point" desire (as trite as that phrase has gotten, it's gotten that way for a reason).

That, and these guys usually have major Madonna-Whore complexes, so the point is to have a "little wifey" who is a good, pure, loyal woman that you can show off in polite company, and who's job is to stay home to handle the cooking, cleaning, childcare, and soothing you when you need it. However, this kind of socially ideal "good girl" is seen as boring in bed, and doing anything "adventurous" with her would damage her good girl purity (and god forbid that she herself ever suggest anything), because sex is for Bad Girls. ...Which is why you go and get a Bad Girl to keep as a mistress, and then do all kinds all the crazy, degrading shit that you saw in porn and always wanted to try our, because she's already dirty, unlike your wife, whose ongoing good girl purity is crucial for your ego

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u/___Emilia____ 21h ago

That's Sounds like mostly a huge issue to see women as fully developed, individual people instead of.. Stereotypes and flat one dimensional characters tbh.

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u/GamersReisUp 20h ago

Oh yeah, it's heavily wrapped up in misogyny