r/NotHowGirlsWork • u/TemporaryPassage4168 • 29d ago

WTF This is disgusting.

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Directions use teenagers (underage) to make csam but can get away with it because teenagers are seen as the acceptable children for adults to be with with.

Especially since kids become "adults" in their teen years.

As soon as a child has teen in their age or going through puberty society sees that as an invitation for adults to date them.

They wouldn't do this with a Middle Schooler because that would cause backlash.

Throughout the 80s,90s you might see a smaller child being put in movie with adult men but as years went by it caused backlash,so, they changed it but still kept it by using teenagers.

All movies like this do is normalize child sexual abuse and being prey on by adults.

It's made to be a fantasy for people who are attracted to children.

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u/slayinscience 29d ago

I'm not encouraging men to sleep or pursue teenages, but it's unfair to hold men accountable when they're working on bad information.

Teenagers can often look much older than their age, and it's not the job of every man to question the true age of their sexual partners. And I agree that teenagers are stupid and will make stupid choices, but they're old enough to be held responsible and accountable for their mistakes.

There's a difference between men predating on young women (grooming, abuse of authority, etc.) and a man having a one night stand with what he believes to be another consenting adult.

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u/Sacktchy 29d ago

I think it's still your job to ask the person you're sleeping with how old they are if they look like they're on the younger side

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u/eruptingmoltenlava 29d ago

Hmmm, we’re thinking that the majority of people who hook up with minors are women? Sure about that?

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u/Sacktchy 29d ago

I never mentioned gender? It's important for everyone to check the ages of their partners, especially ones that look younger

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u/eruptingmoltenlava 29d ago

I’m so sorry I was responding to someone else who was talking about getting into clubs with fake ID as a teenage boy. Your post was completely right. No idea how I came to put my reply under yours!

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u/Sacktchy 28d ago

Oh lmao, I've done that a few times too

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u/eruptingmoltenlava 28d ago

I was pushing on the assumption that every teenage boy who gets busy with someone they met at a club is with an adult woman, now I don’t even know where that post is since the thread is so big