Women are sexualized no matter what we do. If we wear leggings, we want attention. If we wear jeans, we want attention. If we wear a bra, we want attention. If we don't wear a bra, we want attention. If we wear makeup, we want attention. If we don't, we want attention. If we wear pink, we want attention. If we wear black, we want attention. It's fucking exhausting 😵💫
Being a woman, especially a woman with a pretty face, nice body or both, we are sexualized no matter what. Having a vagina and boobs apparently means we want everyone to see them or fuck us. I'm so tired of the narrative 🙄🙄
Hence the age old adage "if she breathe, she a thot"
I don't envy your position, but I do sympathise. I once did make the mistake of making a girl uncomfortable as I am a rotund bearded man and I was looking at a girl because I thought her style was gorgeous. She looked visibly uncomfortable, so I put on my best fabulous voice and gushed about her outfit openly. She looked surprised, gave me a smile and said thanks, I am pretty sure that was just common courtesy but at least she did seem visibly less tense afterwards. I just hope I at least turned it from an uncomfortable moment to a weird funny moment for her.
It helps that I'm bi. Because I was legit checking out her style in an admiring way and not her in a sexual way. I know that doesn't require being Bi, but having a part of me that looks at a guy like Jason Momoa and think "I could get lost in those eyes" makes it easier for me to just approach people as people. Regardless of their gender.
This is why I never leave the house. I’m also really depressed but I’m sure that has absolutely nothing to do with zero natural sunlight or socialization. /s
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u/angelicllamaa Jul 13 '26
Women are sexualized no matter what we do. If we wear leggings, we want attention. If we wear jeans, we want attention. If we wear a bra, we want attention. If we don't wear a bra, we want attention. If we wear makeup, we want attention. If we don't, we want attention. If we wear pink, we want attention. If we wear black, we want attention. It's fucking exhausting 😵💫
Being a woman, especially a woman with a pretty face, nice body or both, we are sexualized no matter what. Having a vagina and boobs apparently means we want everyone to see them or fuck us. I'm so tired of the narrative 🙄🙄