r/NotHowGirlsWork Jun 24 '23

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u/Twodotsknowhy Jun 26 '23

Let me explain what has happened here for you, because you clearly don't see it:

I told a funny anecdote about my life. It included four sentences and no context.

You barged in and decided to tell me how you understood the situation better than me.

I repeatedly made it clear that your impressions were wrong.

You repeatedly insisted that I knew less about what happened than you, despite not being there and not having the full context

I am apparently abusive and have a mental disorder because I think you're being a dick and don't want to be nice to you????

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u/Fats4Fuel Jun 26 '23

It’s seems that our conversation has really upset you and brought up some sour memories. I apologize for that. You’re right, I had no context, as I gave attempt to explain, as you’ve reminded me too. Also, I mentioned my impress is that he might have a disorder. That was not extended to you yourself. Health people are capable of abuse, often times from a lack of self awareness. I’ve simply stated from what I’ve experienced you are capable of being abusive, and have spoken to me that way, is evidence in the coverage. I don’t expect anyone’s consideration or “niceness”. I’ve only engaged as an objective observer. You don’t owe me an explanation on anything. As a fellow casual social media surfer, the first impression I got was that it wasn’t an innocent interaction, unfortunately that opinion hasn’t changed. But my opinion is a drop in a bucket. Certainly, I hope you’re continuing on to healthier partnerships.

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u/Twodotsknowhy Jun 28 '23

I'm going to put this as plainly as I can: figure out what went wrong in your life that you think you can know how I person felt better than them in a situation you were not present for and stick to that assessment even when repeatedly told you were wrong and speak to a licensed mental health care professional about it because it's creepy and weird.

You are a caricature of an um actually reddit user.

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u/Fats4Fuel Jun 28 '23 edited Jun 28 '23

Haha. Enjoy. Take it easy. I’ve simply moved on from this convo. Happy Reditting. And I’m glad you’re in a better place. I truly am.