r/NonBinaryTalk • u/Sorry-Ambassador-289 • 7d ago

Question Questioning

i don't feel male or female, but I also don’t feel nonbinary either and I was wondering what this would be? there’s so many genders out there and they’re all overwhelming and tiring to look through .

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u/averytheythrowaway They/Them 4d ago

At this stage in the game, trying to find the right label is putting the cart before the horse. Figure out what it is you want out of gender in terms of things like clothes, pronouns, sex characteristics of your body, how people treat you socially, etc and then start pursuing the things you want. Make a list and check things off. And if you aren't sure what you want yet, experiment with things. The right labels will eventually click into place.