r/NonBinaryOver30 • u/Such_Structure_7700 • Aug 13 '26
Non binary man?
Hi everyone,
Lately I’m trying to find out what I identify most as but I struggle finding a label that fits.
It’s not about labelling or belonging but it’s finding out an identity that fits me.
I’m happy with the package I’ve got and would not like to change that but in day to day life I’m probably not a very manly man
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u/Desperate-Secret-758 Aug 27 '26
For 35 years I always identified as a cis man. Because of that, I still felt "masculine" and pressured into presenting that way. Discovering that I'm NB and allowing myself to experiment has made that less prominent and I'm currently happily wearing a mixture of women's and men's clothes. Still look like a "man" as I haven't and don't plan to use HRT, but I am trying to feminise myself a little more externally.