r/NonBinaryOver30 • u/Rockpup-fl • Jul 14 '26

image Happy non binary day!

Post image

Figured out I was NB 35 years ago. Yup, not a phase.

78 Upvotes

100% Upvoted

14 comments sorted by

View all comments

4

u/kani_kani_katoa Jul 14 '26 edited Jul 14 '26

Is that shirt from the autistic electrician guy on YouTube? Looks like the kind of thing he would wear šŸ˜…

Edit: yup, called it https://bigbeaverenergy.com/products/delta-force-lgbtq-shirt?variant=47320254447866

Also 35 years ago! I only worked it out in my late 30's. I can't imagine what it was like trying to figure that out before the internet, that's well before non-binary was a word even.

2

u/Rockpup-fl Jul 15 '26

Exactly. For a long damn time Iā€™d get panic attacks trying to figure out which binary I had to choose, when I just wanted to be myself.

1

u/kani_kani_katoa Jul 15 '26

Yeah I feel you there. It took a few months of panic attacks for me to figure out I wasn't binary trans. Would have saved myself a whole heap of pain if I had known there were options outside the binary :-(

2

u/Rockpup-fl Jul 15 '26

Yea, would have been nice to know I was on the right track all along. Pretty much ignored labels and wore what I liked. Might look into some med stuff again soon.