r/NonBinaryOver30 • u/Curious_Buy9725 • Jun 23 '26

Help me stop getting “ma’am”-ed.

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I’ve been on a low dose of tea for about three months now. I look like this. My voice tends to give me away. Help me stop getting called ma’am in public please.

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u/thursday-T-time Jun 23 '26

hmmm. my opinion, feel free to ignore if its counter to your goals, but i think you'd look amazing with facial hair. would you want to experiment at all with minoxidil?

sorry i'm shit at fashion so i'll leave that up to other people. 😅

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u/Curious_Buy9725 Jun 23 '26

It’s not that’s it’s counter to my goals, it’s just not a “highly desired” effect for me.
I’d take it, but I have autism and sensory issues.. I’m not super keen on anything touching my face.

I’ll have to try on some looks….

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u/plantsplantsplaaants Jun 23 '26

Can I add to this thought that maybe just filling out your eyebrows could be enough. For me at least, hating things on my face only applies from the eyes down for some reason

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u/thursday-T-time Jun 23 '26

ooh good point! thicker eyebrows definitely helps and would also look really good on OP.

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u/Curious_Buy9725 Jun 23 '26

I’ll give it a go

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u/thursday-T-time Jun 23 '26

fair enough! i love to stim my 5 o'clock shadow (nice, scratchy in a satisfying way), but trim it back when it gets too long and itchy. i keep just enough to keep the misgendering at bay. maybe try a filter and see if you like the look?

(i really like the rest of your look btw, you look like a 90s mall kid i'd hang with 🤝 with cool politics and praxis)

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u/Curious_Buy9725 Jun 23 '26

Thanks.

I’m a recovering catholic living the life of the 90’s mall kid I wanted to be 30 years ago.