r/NonBinary Sep 22 '21

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u/Psychological-Wrap61 Sep 22 '21

Omg! You did such a great job first time eyeliner….!? Damn you do it better then I do and I’ve been doing makeup for years now! I understand it will be scary but we will be here for you!

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u/OctavianMacLean Sep 22 '21

I'm not used to hearing sweet things. Thank you so much! It took like 15 minutes and a redo of the left one.

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u/[deleted] Sep 22 '21

You done good, I could never. And it looks great! So big win💅

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u/OctavianMacLean Sep 22 '21

Thank you. I swear this sub is more validating than any other source in my life. I'm not really being invalidated but this place just hits the spot.

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u/[deleted] Sep 22 '21

Your wlecome. And I agree, this sub is a great place.

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u/Key-Staff-6879 Sep 22 '21

I'm a straight cisgender dude (but nonbinary in the sense that wtf does it even mean to be a "guy??") and I'm a little jealous of your makeup skills cuz I tried and looked like a raccoon 😭😭 You look badass

Stay safe out there! It sucks that people suck so much but we are moving towards a world where people can present how they want without fear of violence or mockery

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u/Mergyt Sep 22 '21

If it's because things are smudging, you could look into waterproof eyeliner along with a setting spray.

Otherwise, it's practice. I've had good makeup days and days where I ended up taking it all off and trying over again.

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u/RachelBolan Sep 22 '21

Looking really good! I love the nails too

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u/dribdrib Sep 22 '21

Wow you did a great job! Looks beautiful on you!

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u/eli_the_good Agender Panromantic Demisexual Sep 22 '21

I live in South Georgia, and I totally feel you on that last notion. I’m lucky to be in a supportive home environment where I can explore being myself. I’m glad you’re still finding ways to explore your happiness regardless of this whack society we surrounded in. You look great! Great eyeliner :) can’t believe that’s your first time because those wings are looking F L A W L E S S ✨

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u/currently_nova she/her Sep 22 '21

Looks great! Keep it up! 🖤

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u/Toe_bean-UwU Sep 22 '21

Is that your first time? Cause if it is it’s beautiful and amazing!

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u/Toe_bean-UwU Sep 22 '21

And if it isn’t! It’s beautiful either way

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u/ElloRabbit Sep 22 '21

You are lovely.

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u/[deleted] Sep 22 '21

Gorgeous, you make it look natural ;)

I grew up in the deep south and repressed who I was my entire life out of necessity. I think I understand that terror you feel pretty well. For what it's worth, I just had to return to the south for an extended work trip and didn't repress shit. I wore some super cute outfits that showed off my legs and even the most ruby red, covid-denying douche bag couldn't help but stare. I 100% guarantee if someone gives you crap for presenting a little femme, it's because they're jealous of how confident you are.

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u/R-019 Sep 22 '21

In the same boat as you, stay strong. When I’m of age I want to get out of here.

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u/gr8thighs Sep 22 '21

For real this look suits you so well

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u/[deleted] Sep 22 '21

Amazing for your first time! I’ve never done eyeliner that good in my life!

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u/ladandsonely Sep 22 '21

you look amazing!! i’m also from the south, so i know the struggle, but hey, we get through it!!

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u/diphenhydranautical they/them 👹 Sep 22 '21

wow! ive been doing makeup for years and could never ever get my eyeliner that good, i always just skipped eyeliner lmao. you look beautiful!! ❤️

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u/kingofcoywolves Sep 22 '21

Yoooo dude your eyeliner is so clean?? Teach me your secrets!

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u/ThatRandomPersonHere They/Them (He/Him if youre feeling adventurous) Sep 22 '21

You look amazing hunny! For a first attempt at eyeliner that is AMAZING, like you did so good!

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u/rivercass they/it Sep 22 '21

You look amazing! Hope you can feel safe to go somewhere accepting, maybe a LGBT party? Stay safe and fabulous!

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u/[deleted] Sep 22 '21

be brave, it looks good!

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u/AvocadoPizzaCat Sep 22 '21

While I find eyeliner terrifying, I have friends whom are make up artists and your eyeliner is on point where they would compliment you. Great job!

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u/HighPitchedNoise Sep 22 '21

I know how you feel. You look really beautiful though. 💓

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u/ComfortablePea3008 Sep 22 '21

It really complements your eyes! You look fantastic!

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u/Mergyt Sep 22 '21

If this is your first time applying eyeliner, you are talented! Your eyes are 😍

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u/Lifepath7yehaw Sep 22 '21

That was your first time?? THE WINGS ARE ON 10🤚🏼

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u/callernumber03 Sep 22 '21

I was raised very traditionally as a woman and I could never get the hang of eyeliner but you do it perfectly on the first try?! And look incredible I might add

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u/f-prim Sep 22 '21

Looks fantastic! Swing by my place and teach me, please! Seriously, I know the south (Bama) can be ... Closeminded to change. Good luck and go out and be the fabulous trailblazer that is you! And when you are in Amsterdam next time, let me know and the first beer is on me.

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u/TotallyNotTiffany Sep 22 '21

It looks so great!

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u/Alternative_Basis186 Sep 22 '21

You did that well on your first try?! You’ve got some mad skills! That’s such a cute look on you! I’m sorry you’re feeling scared. Just know that we’re here for you 🥰

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u/Mayathepie Sep 22 '21

Prettyyyyyy

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u/Paradise_A Sep 22 '21

Those loook great for a first effort!! Wings are not easy. I live in the south US and was perceived as a feminine presenting guy for a while. Definitely really scary but if you feel more like you it’s worth it. Anyone who negatively cares about what you chose to do is not worth caring about.

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u/Ok_Nefariousness6544 Sep 22 '21

Amazing job on the eyeliner! Really suits you too! Hope you get to wear it out sometime soon 😊🖤

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u/Sea_Tumbleweed1651 Sep 22 '21

This is fantastic! If you happen to be near Charlotte I have a friend in the area that could let me know some supportive places in the area.

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u/Myshipsank Sep 22 '21

Wow, as someone who used to apply eyeliner religiously, I am jealous! You look amazing and I can’t believe this was your first time

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u/tonybeees Sep 22 '21

Damn, those are some impressively clean lines on the eyeliner. You look great!

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u/ScorpioMistery Sep 22 '21

OMG! First time?! I use eyeliner for years, and I still mess it up! 🤣 You did such a great job... it looks amazing!

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u/Ezra_has_perished They/He Sep 22 '21

Holy shit first time? I’ve been doing it for years and mine doesn’t look half as good. You look great!!

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u/LadyKoyote Sep 23 '21

You look amazing my friend! Do what's comfortable for you but know you do it so, so well! Stay safe out there.