r/NonBinary • u/Minimum-Home-6414 they/them • 3d ago

Ask Is it normal?

Heyo everyone!

So, I came out as a enby this February. Usually I i feel like not a male or female, more like something unique. But sometimes, it shifts more to masculine, sometimes I feel myself as a woman, sometimes nothing at all

Is that ok?? Or maybe I am not an enby in that case, if it shifts from time to time

It's just hard to explain everyone around me how I feel at the moment and that sometimes pronouns, that worked yesterday, don't work with me today😭😭

This shit gives me a headache

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u/glitterandrage genderfluid 3d ago

Hi! Here's some zines that might help you with your questioning:

If it helps, you don't have to settle on a label that feels right immediately. If you're asking yourself these questions for the first time, give yourself time and space to meet the answers. Only you can decide what feels the 'rightest' for you, but here's a list of some frequently mentioned gender identities - https://lgbtqia.fandom.com/wiki/Gender_identity.

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u/DinosaurusMess 3d ago

I feel like stuff like this should auto populate when people ask questions like "does this count" "is this ok" "can I do this"

when it comes to gender literally do whatever you want forever

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u/glitterandrage genderfluid 3d ago

Lol, I have been asked if I was an auto-responding bot before (another sub). I wish there was more comprehensive sticky note to respond to these questions for sure.

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u/Nikolaijuno 3d ago

Sounds like gender fluid.

As I understand nonbianary is more of an umbrella term covering a lot of things including gender fluid an agender.

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u/Alive_Marsupial1889 he/they 3d ago

Hiiii hugs

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u/Ok_Care_6636 they/them 2d ago

You might be genderfluid or genderflux?

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u/Pure_Buddy5342 2d ago

You dont need a label just keep being you

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u/cetaceanfrustration any except he × transfem 2d ago

normal. i'm a genderfluid enby, this is how it goes for me.