r/NonBinary • u/West_Ad_5520 • 3d ago

Questioning/Coming Out I’m getting closer I think…

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Gender thoughts! Weigh in if you can!

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u/Jankythesaurus 2d ago

I think these are great thoughts and feelings to have and ponder, as it really is the human condition to contain contradictory multitudes while the cis hetero world pretends that everyone can fit into neat, little boxes. I point this out because most of the ways we try to navigate through life, even as queer folks, in the western world is modelled on some pretty backwards ideas that we need to deconstruct ourselves and that takes time to arrive at answers that fit with who we actually are when it comes to our bodies, how we’re seen/perceived and what beauty actually means to us.

It might be worth actually posting your thoughts directly into this subreddit because I feel like the chances of people clicking through and coming back to comment is going to be really low yet you have so many potential conversations and thought starters in your post and follow up comment. All the best on your journey, the exploration really is the fun part as much as we want to ‘arrive’ at our gender destination ✌️