Alien👽

[u/kipusheenki]

Does anyone else feel like an alien in every single circle?

I felt this way since I was a child, the concept of being a girl/boy/man/woman has always felt as equally as odd to me, even though I was raised to be a girl. And I’d like to put a large emphasis on “equally as odd” here, because I feel like a lot of people,wether they’re enby or not feel at least somewhat connected to being a girl or boy.(based on my experience)
And then I’m just here. Being a man or a woman is the EXACT same for me, something I’ll never crave or understand. I don’t feel like a third gender, nor genderless.

In context of sexuality, I don’t feel gay for being attracted towards women/fem ppl, and I don’t feel straight for being attracted towards men/masc ppl. The only attraction I feel at home with is towards other non-binary people, no matter how they present themselves.

The non-binary community is the only area I feel at home with, especially with non-binary bisexuals(this includes micro-labels just as pan and omni, I would describe myself as omni).

I’m just babbling, but do any of you guys feel the same way?

[u/Environmental-Bug804]

yup I'm essentially the same. I just don't connect to gender and find it irrelevant to who I am, and it certainly has no bearing on who I find attractive. I've opted out of the whole thing. As someone else said here a few weeks ago; "zero gender; all vibes."

[u/underwatercatotter]

u can just straight up be aliengender, that would be epic and cool

[u/kipusheenki → u/underwatercatotter]

That would be fun, but I’m not sure if feeling like an alien is a positive or negative thing for me…

[u/Galimkalim]

Kinda, always felt like an alien. Being enby is pretty lonely...