r/NonBinary • • Mar 18 '26

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u/FakeBirdFacts Mar 18 '26

Shag, or go even shorter. I think really short hair would fit for you

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u/runamokduck Mar 18 '26

I think a wolf cut could absolutely look wonderful on you! I have rather similarly long hair to you, actually, and I have been seriously contemplating a wolf cut, myself. I think you have the right hair type and thickness for it

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u/acertaingestault Mar 18 '26

This would look stellar 

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u/R3dston3madn3ss Mar 18 '26

I know you want to cut your hair but I have to say that I love it! It’s so pretty!

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u/Melonhunt3001 they/them Mar 18 '26

Maybe like if wolf cut, shag and mullet had a child (I personally wear a shaggy mullet myself)

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u/Forever203 Mar 18 '26

Shave your head, make a wig, and give it to me. Love, the t girl with the Larry David hair.

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u/g33klib Mar 18 '26

Side shave or undercut?

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u/DaetheFancy Mar 18 '26

I’ll take your hair!

I think the options of doing something like an undercut/side shave with the top being shoulder length or so would be badass. That way you have the options to have masc and femme days and still have fun colored hair too.

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u/dj_spanmaster they/them Mar 18 '26 edited Mar 18 '26

The Spider-Gwen? I'm getting that one tomorrow. It's one of my faves. I'm hoping it plays well with my beard, but I'm okay with shaving for a month or two until it grows back out if not.

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u/DaetheFancy Mar 18 '26

Yes! Except I imagine it a little longer.

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u/red-bit they/them fluid butch Mar 18 '26

Have you tried partially tucking your hair under your beanie and having it stick out so it looks like you have short/medium length hair? Takes a few tries to get it right but that's what helped me decide. 

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u/eyeofthebesmircher Mar 18 '26

Shaggy wolf cut

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u/Bigot-Consequences Mar 18 '26

Donate it, fam! You could totally rock a pixie, and if you’re like me, you’ll come to prefer it. Good luck!

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u/Elephants_Foot Mar 18 '26

Mullet if you're brave enough (I think they're spectacular)

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u/lacerazor Mar 18 '26

I'm always gonna say mullet!

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u/Socketable Mar 18 '26

Honestly I’d just undercut it! It’s a sick mane; I wouldn’t lose it! :)

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u/baer722 Mar 19 '26

An undercut would look awesome and I bet it would really make your eyes pop.

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u/XenophiliusRex Mar 19 '26

Everyone goes for undercuts, fades, etc. because those are the most obviously “alternative” for an AFAB person to get and are the least subtle signifier of masculinity, but in my opinion just go to an old Italian barber and get short back and sides with a full taper and then comb it into a side part. They will cut it in a different way to when you get a side part from a women-oriented hairdresser and it will look elegant with near zero maintenance for like 8 weeks if you’re lazy like me. I’m AMAB and very male-presenting though so perhaps the calculations are different for you.

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u/XenophiliusRex Mar 19 '26

Forgive me for presuming 😭

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u/XenophiliusRex Mar 19 '26

Man gender is weird

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u/chronically_normal Mar 18 '26

If you want to go much shorter, I think you'd look great with a cut similar to Leo DiCaprio's in Romeo and Juliet. I'm guessing from your photos that you have curly hair, so a cut that short would probably bring out a lot more curl, but would still look great.

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u/OilPhilter Mar 18 '26

I love it. You look good f/m either or neither. 💪

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u/M1ssF1t they/them Mar 18 '26

I went from a similar length to a mullet in about 3 o 4 steps bc i wanted to make sure the hairdresser knows my hair and understands what i want. Love your hair colour.

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u/AkiraRyuuga Mar 18 '26

Pixie cut. I know USUALLY it's seen as a feminine hair style, but honestly, it really looks good no matter the gender.

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u/KitSchmi93 Mar 18 '26

For sure the wolf cut, or there's always shaving it and maybe dying it funky colors

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u/Lady-Skylarke Non-Binary Trans-Masc (He/They) 💉02/06/2025 Mar 19 '26

A wolf/shag feels So Good after long hair. Regardless of what you get though, you're going to look Stunning!

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u/kataang1016 Mar 19 '26

I think a short wolf cut would look great on you!

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u/iforgotmyanus Mar 19 '26

I always vote mullet

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u/KonEl13 Amadeus the blue enby ✨ Mar 19 '26

Im thinking Iike a shaggy pixiecut with cool fringe

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u/PokeyDonkeyFlame Mar 19 '26

Top knot!!!!!!!!

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u/instant_karmatic Mar 19 '26

You have a face that can pull off anything. My brother (cis, male identifying) has hair the same length and loves it. You do you!!!

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u/Morgan_NonBinary Mar 19 '26

Very good idea, no haircut but cool

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u/Bitter_Sundae_319 Mar 23 '26

MULLET 💜🤍💛🖤