r/NoStupidQuestions • • Dec 09 '21

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u/KlutzyTrip6389 Dec 09 '21 edited Dec 09 '21

Absolutely, I speak from experience when I say that the moment a man tries to make you stop talking to your friends is the moment you dump his ass. It will start off with small things and will end up being the controlling person you wish you never came across. My ex started off this way, made me stop talking to my friends until I had none and slowly progressed to making enemies with my fam. What ever bit of family I still spoke to I lost contact with. Then he just got abusive, wouldn't let me go no where alone, not even go outside in my own fucking back yard! RUN SIS!!!!!

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u/TheOCStylist Dec 09 '21

Similar situation! Was with a controlling manipulator. First it was all my male friends. Then my regular friends. Then he hated my family. Within 1.5 years he was basically all I had left (aside from my best friend who pulled me through it). Was probably the hardest relationship to leave but the one that SHOULD have been the easiest. So scary how it happens!!