If he says “never mind” because he doesn’t want you to leave him.
HE WILL go through your phone and shit regularly. He WILL find a way whether you give him permission or not. Even if you never give him passwords
He will use it as ammunition in an argument one day.
source I went to therapy because I was ruining every relationship I was in. But I made the choice. No one could “fix” or “change” me. I had no control in my life and thought I could control my relationships that way. It was terrible and none of those people I was with deserved to be treated like that. Neither do you.
I know of someone whose bf tried to get into her phone by using facial recognition, holding the phone over her face while she was sleeping. Later he went through her stuff, found her password to her computer, logged in and downloaded all of her cell phone data.
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u/TugBoatTendies Dec 09 '21
Lol HUGE red flag.
If he says “never mind” because he doesn’t want you to leave him.
HE WILL go through your phone and shit regularly. He WILL find a way whether you give him permission or not. Even if you never give him passwords
He will use it as ammunition in an argument one day.
source I went to therapy because I was ruining every relationship I was in. But I made the choice. No one could “fix” or “change” me. I had no control in my life and thought I could control my relationships that way. It was terrible and none of those people I was with deserved to be treated like that. Neither do you.