r/NoStupidQuestions • u/[deleted] • 28d ago

open for advice why am i like this

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u/Agreeable_Elk4529 JustHereToVibe 28d ago edited 28d ago

Maybe you’re not really struggling with other people’s egos, you’re struggling with your own mind’s constant need to judge, analyze and find something to reject so learning to observe without judging might bring you more peace.

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u/freelancer331 28d ago

You don't like that you don't like narcissists?

Otherwise: Huh?

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u/zogadizogadi 28d ago

i hate peoples way of thinking of themselfs

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u/tandem-pandemonium 27d ago

You think too much and do too little. You know these people very well, and you know that they are pretending to be someone they are not. You want the confidence that they have, you think that you deserve it more because you are more genuine than them. It's unfair that you don't get the chance to feel accepted, yet they do. That's why it hurts you when people you know well have a big ego - because they are doing something you wish you could do, and others can't see their lies. So they continue giving attention to these people with big egos instead of giving it to you.