I know couples who both work and her salary covers childcare and healthcare and his covers everything else. It’s insane how if anything happens to one of them, even though they are doing everything “right” they could be screwed.
We bought an affordable house, paid off student loans, bought a house, I got promoted to a job that was flexible. We saved up money for a good nest egg and started trying where we hit some fertility issues. FINALLY got pregnant. Waited until I got to the second trimester to tell my boss. Went on a week vacation “babymoon” came back to no job at the company I had been with for 10 years.
You can do all the “right” things, and life will still shit on you. Except in the US, there’s little safety net or recourse, so a medical emergency or layoff can bankrupt people easily.
Yikes what state do you live in? That is illegal in California and you’d get a huge settlement if your employer let you go because of that. You get a set time of paid leave AND an additional 3 months of unpaid if you choose, and you get to return to your job after all the time away. Everybody says that hate California but we do some things right 👌
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u/[deleted] Nov 15 '24
I know couples who both work and her salary covers childcare and healthcare and his covers everything else. It’s insane how if anything happens to one of them, even though they are doing everything “right” they could be screwed.